Don’t dare call him gay. He’s bi, even though he’s making out with, sucking dick and fucking a guy

I’m beginning to think that many — if not most — (homophobic) porn “actors” don’t deserve anyone’s attention. They have too many issues, especially when it comes to the word “gay.” Don’t dare call them gay — even when they have sex with guys — because they’ll go ape on you. Then there are the many porn “actors” who started out in gay porn and worked in that genre for years, then switched to straight porn and now never mention the gay part of their background. More homophobia? What are they ashamed of?

Hola a todos. One porn “actors” corrected a viewer in the comment section of the video I was previewing. The video was a three-way: MFM (guy, female in the middle and another guy). Well, as I see it, when two guys are making out and or doing anything together even if there’s a chick on the bed, they’re technically having “gay sex.” You certainly wouldn’t call that “straight sex.” She could have been in the next room and it wouldn’t have made any difference to what the two guys were doing together on the bed. Because they’re not doing anything with her. There’s a porn “actor” (initials WH) who I sense is a very nice guy but is very insecure with himself. I’ve written about him elsewhere. He’s the guy who says people should be “sexually fluid” (oh here we go with that again!). “Sexual fluidity” caters to the far-right’s thinking that people can choose or change their sexuality such as “gays choose to be gay.” WH touts “sexual fluidity” out of one side of his mouth for the videos he’s in. But in his personal life, he’s made it quite clear, adamantly clear in fact that he is not “sexually fluid” at all and only dates females. He’s adamantly “straight” in his private life. “I only date women” he said in an interview and he really wanted us to believe that. I pointed out this hypocrisy awhile back. Well, in a comment under one of his bi videos with another guy and a female, someone referred to WH and the other guy as gay guys considering they were having “gay sex” especially at the beginning of the video. WH felt the need to correct the viewer by saying “You meant bi guys.” Clearly, WH has a problem with the word gay and wants no association with it. The dude has issues. What does it matter if someone calls you gay, WH, when you did have “gay sex” when you were making out with and fucking around with another dude? If you were truly secure with yourself — which you are not — you wouldn’t care what anyone called you. And you likely offended some gay viewers just as you offended me by making the correction. Who the fuck cares what you are? But I’m surprised he didn’t use the new Orwellian term “pansexual” — or whatever new term they’ll dream up and use tomorrow — instead of the outdated word “bi.” Sad and pathetic really. I started to watch the video with WH and the other guy and chick, but I lost interest having reading that remark, which is happening more and more for me. So many of these porn “actors” suck and don’t deserve anyone’s attention. These porn “actors” have more issues than many politicians, I swear.

OR, maybe the commenter was saying that the two guys in the video looked gay to him. I’d agree with that too. When I first saw WH months ago, I think I said he looked gay to me then too. With the other guy in the video, I saw him last week for the first time and he looked like another gay guy that was trying to “butch it up” to look straight to fuck chicks. I couldn’t find anything on his past from my research. He’s relatively new to the porn industry and seems to be already burned out. He wrote that he’s taking a break for his mental health, covid travelling concerns and concern that he’d give covid to his co-workers at his other job. Interestingly, he didn’t say he was concerned about his own health. About half the time when I see a guy or guys with a female whether it’s straight or bi, the guy(s) look gay to me. The other half of the time they look straight. I saw this supposedly straight couple the other night. They had produced around 30-40 videos. As soon as I saw the guy’s face — he was eating pussy — I said “Another closeted gay guy with a female?” He still looked gay to me when I saw him in full view. And I should point out that the overwhelming majority of gay guys around the world live in the closet, either alone or with a female and kids. There’s only a small minority by comparison of gay guys worldwide who are out of the closet. “The research found that out of this sub-group of participants, all of whom self-identified as homosexual, three-quarters of them had never had sex with a man.”….”Professor Kathleen Herkommer, who led the study, explained that these men’s mental health can suffer as a result of hiding their sexuality, and that this groundbreaking research could help the drive to help them….We identified a group that recognises its homosexuality, but do not live it, and instead lead and have led a purely heterosexual life – often with a wife and children,” she said.”

Even though I think most people will continue to use the word bi, it apparently has negative connotations for some people — supposedly (pre-COVID) some females don’t like hooking up with or dating bi guys because of the female’s homophobia because the bi guy also has sex with guys — so some nut dreamed up “pansexual” which means that someone will have sex with/fuck anyone regardless of what they look like. That’s the bottom line. I’ve seen some “pansexual” guys have sex with extremely overweight females where it looked like it was difficult to find her pussy.

Some people might think that “pansexual” means people who are sexually attracted to pans or skillets or humping the stove. No, it doesn’t mean that at all, at least not yet, but it might be part of it tomorrow! You never know with porn. Chau.—el barrio rosa