Gay Conversion

The Gay Conversion AgendaTM would have one believe that when one becomes a breeder/straight that there’s no longer a problem in the world and it’s smooth sailing with pussy. In reality, pussy — which is a slimy mucous membrane and the rank smell of it which the Gay Conversion sites never talk about — is only a small fraction of a female in the big scheme of things. The Gay Conversion Agenda crowd say such stuff as “pussy is the gay cure” which of course implies there’s something wrong with being gay in their bigoted mind. These people have quite the anti-gay agenda as they toss around the pejoratives “faggot” and “homo.” The Gay Conversion Agenda tries to make pussy a sexual fetish, completely overlooking that when one is with a female one gets the entire female package which is a lot more than that pussy. Ugh. Some of these sites encourage breeding (pumping out babies) as if that’s as simple and comes with no more responsibility than taking out a magazine subscription. In reality, once a guy breeds, be prepared for the next 18 years of your life already spoken for and immense re$pon$ibilitie$. Dinero/Money. Child support payments after you “divorce the bitch” as straight guys often say. There’s a legitimate reason that many straight guys refer to “that bitch” when referring to their wife or girlfriend, and many breeder guys prefer to jack off rather than have to deal with her and her unstable emotional disposition which often resembles a train wreck. Because that pussy comes with a tremendous amount of baggage and entrance rights. As my straight neighbour often tells me, “I wish I were gay; it would be so much easier. I know several gay male couples in long term relationships and guys seem to be so much easier. Women are so difficult! That pussy is not worth it!” (His words).

UPDATE (abril/April 2018): Well, there’s another gay conversion site but “his” agenda is more covert. He paints it like this: I lived my life as a gay man for several years, [Ed. Why only several years? I've personally never known anyone who was gay for only several years] found myself increasingly attracted to women [Ed. yeah sure you did, liar!], started dating them, and am now in a happy hetero relationship. [Ed. Does anyone believe this shit? He's covertly saying that a "hetero relationship"/breeder relationship is the "correct" or preferred relationship, as opposed to a gay relationship.] This site is to help gay-identified men who are experiencing strong desires for women [Ed. Translation: My site is a gay conversion site but I won't call it that], starting to think of themselves as bisexual, and are wondering about the next step. Women who are interested in such men are very welcome here! Plus there’s porn. BTW, I currently ID as bi. Not interested in sleeping with anyone but my wife. This blog is dedicted [sic] to someone who will never read it — my hot, sexy, wonderful wife, the best lover I’ll ever have. Adults only, please. If you’re under 18, please leave now.
My Questions related to his site: He currently ID’s as bi but supposedly got married to a female? Does anyone believe this story? Therefore he’s ignoring his feelings for guys by being in a straight/breeder relationship. And since he doesn’t want to have sex with a guy or anyone but his wife, why was it important for him to tell us that he ID’s as bi? Why would he ID as bi if he only sleeps with this supposed wife of his? If his “hot sexy wonderful wife” is “all that” why is he keeping his site that he’s dedicated to her a secret from her? WTF? It looks to me like he’s covertly looking for sex, otherwise he would not put so much effort into a sex site and try to convince gay guys into liking pussy, which is just the front or excuse for his site. How many straight guys do you know who have a personal sex site online and who is completely happy with his wife, with Ms Wonderful? I can’t think of a one. This story doesn’t make any sense. Why isn’t he sharing his porn site with his “Ms Hot Sexy Wonderful” wife? Does she have a hidden site too trying to convert lesbians into being straight women and liking dick so she too can find sex on the side? WTF is wrong with him? I think we all know that this is just another made up lie, and/or a fucked up gay man who is desperately trying to covertly find “gay sex” using pussy as the excuse. Does he not realise he’s not being fully open with Ms Wonderful? It sounds like he didn’t think things through before he made up his fictional little story to go with his gay conversion site. He also says he was a bottom when he was gay. Now, as expected on any gay conversion site, his favourite thing to do is, can you guess? Eat pussy. As my straight neighbour (a really nice guy) often tells me: “You’d have to be sick to eat pussy when it’s the same as eating a dead fish on the seashore. I don’t know which one smells worse.” He’s often says he wish he were gay as he thinks guys are much easier to be with. Chau.—el barrio rosa

UPDATE (enero/January 2018): Well the anti-Queer agenda ramped up recently with yet another gay conversion site in the same series with all the others. This one is particularly blatantly anti-gay with its regular use of the words “the fag, the faggot, the homo, fuck the homo, stupid homo” and other derogatory words. One of their story lines has a gay guy calling his partner at home and saying that he won’t be back home in time for their anniversary because his “business trip” is taking longer than expected. His “business trip” is really a trip out of town where he’s cheating on his boyfriend with a female he’s fucking in a hotel. Six months later, according to their storyline, he’s married to her — the image shows a guy fucking a female — and he’s “on his way to starting a real family.” Implying that gay families are not “real families.” Also, the guy on the phone calling his boyfriend to cancel their anniversary is not the same guy fucking the female on the bed. They both have a beard, and I guess that’s all they thought that people would look at (since you can’t see his dick), but they’re not the same guy at all because I checked them both out. Attention to detail is not at all something that these sites are big on. As with the other gay conversion sites, the site is amateurishly done with typos (they don’t seem to proof anything they write) and extremely-slow-loading images which don’t match. What I mean by that is that their anti-gay story line will have several images that they steal from some where. They use these images for their agenda by typing on the images their anti-gay message. When I say the images don’t “match,” what I mean by that is that the guy shown in the first image is not the same guy shown in the second image — even though he’s supposed to be; and just like the guys in the “business trip” story I mentioned earlier — who has become a “pussy hound.” Then, where they use animated images where the person in the image is talking briefly, what they claim he’s saying (in their caption underneath) is not at all what he’s saying in the image and one can see this to be the case with even an elementary level of lip-reading.

Then there’s the fictional “gay couple goes straight” story that I’ve seen all over these sites. I’m not going to relate the entire story line other than to say it has to do with one of the guys in the gay couple realises that he’s now sexually turned on by this girl at work who’s young enough to be his daughter and she’s interested in this Daddy. The guy’s partner flips out when he tells him about her and that he wants to have sex with her in their bedroom, yet the partner is also turned on by this. To cut the story short, this girl comes to their place and after the guy comes up from eating her pussy out — and of course causing her to have 3 orgasm (not 5 or 6?) — the writer describes how her pussy juice is in his reddish-blond goatee. The problem with that is that the guy doesn’t have a reddish-blond goatee. Up above the story about them is an alleged picture of the two guys that the writer stole from somewhere online. When I read, “reddish-blond goatee” I said to myself: But neither guy has reddish blond hair or a goatee. So I scrolled back up to the supposed picture of them and my memory of them was correct. They both have a black beard. No reddish-blond goatee. You slipped up again anti-gay liars. So who are the two gay guys you’re showing in that picture who have supposedly gone straight and where did you steal their picture from? But that’s what these sites do. They lift/steal pictures somewhere to go with their fictional “gay goes straight” story line, but the pictures often don’t match or fit descriptions in the story. Nevertheless, at the end of this fictional story, both gay guys end up having sex with this girl and after she leaves they decide that they’re no longer gay.

Confirming my suspicion that many (if not all) of these sites are run by the same hateful person or group of bigoted anti-Queer people with an anti-gay agenda of “ending homosexuality within 10 years,” (that’s what the newest site says), this newest site is now being “fed” verbatim into the other gay conversion sites, exactly the way it appears on the original site. In any other situation, this would be considered a major copyright violation, but I suppose if one anti-Queer person with a anti-gay agenda owns all the sites, this is legal. Nearly all of the comments in agreement with the site are written by “anonymous,” and “anonymous” asks the blogger questions as if s/he is seen as a mental health/sex expert. Such as, “Why am I happy and turned on that my gay boyfriend is going straight and I think he wants to dump me for a girl?” The blogger’s answer: “Because you know deep down that’s the right thing to do.” I notice repeatedly that the drug alcohol is so often part of these fictional conversion stories and fake personal testimonies of these supposed gay conversions. Such as the gay guy who was “drunk on his ass and met a girl in the gay bar (of all places) and took her home to get his first pussy.” Now I’m sure that worked out extremely well [sarcasm intended] because I think most intelligent people know that a guy can’t even get a hard-on when he’s “drunk on his ass” therefore so much for your bull shit story of “getting your first pussy.” With the frequent mention of booze especially in testimonials, that implies that a gay guy has to be drugged by some means to try pussy. He’s not “trying pussy” on his own using sound judgment in the moment. The site also goes on about the nonexistent “Gay Agenda” while heavily promoting society’s real agenda: the heteronormative Breeder Agenda, where everyone in society is supposed to be straight and “fucking pussy.” Him and her, where images of him and her are shoved in our faces 24/7. That’s certainly no “Gay Agenda” los pendejos. Of course, this is all about breeder sex. With some of these sites the agenda is about getting the female pregnant (“breeding that pussy”) without any consequences whatsoever. I’ve only seen a couple of instances where the consequences of her being a single parent (with already two children) and about to get pregnant again because in the moment she can’t resist the guy cumming in her and she’s not on birth control and is ovulating. One of the sites is promoting “going straight” and marrying a female in order to have a family. I think most intelligent people understand that one can have a family without “going straight” or marrying a female, and there are different types of families. These bigots are promoting the 1940-50s traditional concept of a family.

I told my straight neighbour (he’s a really nice guy) about this new gay conversion site. He asked me: “Do they talk about the woman’s erratic emotional state? Do they talk about the drastic mood changes from one minute to the next and the emotional meltdowns a woman can have for no apparent reason, storming out of the room and you have no idea why, and her emotional flip-flops where she says one thing one minute and then contradicts herself the next? When you ask her about the meltdown she had 10 minutes ago where she acted like a fucking bitch she has no idea what you’re talking about and doesn’t even remember the incident. Her emotions are as quickly changing as if they are on a light switch, off and on. Do they talk about that?” (Answer: No). He continued: “Do they talk about what it’s like to live with a woman? Do they talk about that smelly-fishy slimy-mucous pussy which is right next to the anus which can get pretty rank especially if she doesn’t take a shower every day, and guys claim to like that? (My response: Only because guys have been brainwashed by society that that’s what they are supposed to like to be considered “normal” guys. But no, the sites don’t talk about that at all). He continued: “The vagina is a mucous membrane after all. Sex with a woman is one thing, she often just lies there, but to live with a woman is something much more complicated, more involved and difficult especially in the emotional area. I’m straight and I couldn’t do it and I tried to live with a woman (not the same one) several times! I gave it up, couldn’t do it. I’m single and live alone. I wish I were gay. I think that would be much easier.” With these gay conversion sites, it’s all about sex (no odors) and a gay guy going straight and nothing more. The only time I’ve seen anything about smells is of course in a positive sense when this gay guy in their fictional story was going to eat this female out and the story line was about “her intoxicating womanly smell between her legs” and that “the gay guy didn’t need a second invitation upon smelling that because he was now hooked on pussy.” Other than that, nothing about the smell of pussy is talked about.

Most of these sites urge gay guys after becoming “hooked on pussy” to urge their gay friends to try pussy to convert them, as if it’s a campaign to “turn” gay guys away from being gay. Of course there are the occasional “anonymous” comments about how some former gay guy has converted all of his gay friends to pussy. We all believe that, don’t we? If you haven’t already come to this conclusion: A bunch of sick people with a hateful anti-gay agenda run these sites. End of Update. Chau.—el barrio rosa

The Anti-Gay Agenda: “Sexuality is Fluid.” Translation: A person can change their sexuality; one’s sexuality is changeable, or that a person’s sexuality changes without the person having any control over it. These gay conversion sites promote that “sexuality is fluid,” which is the excuse/justification given for gay guys supposedly being about to “turn bi” or “turn straight.” According to these gay conversion sites, all a gay guy has to do to “turn straight” or “turn bi” is to start fucking pussy — and he will immediately realise what he’s been missing all these years and the ultimate satisfaction of pussy — and also by only watching “straight porn.” The “Sexuality is Fluid” Card is nearly always used in a heteronormative and anti-gay context to promote breeder sex: for the sole purpose and justification of “turning” a gay guy straight or bi.

Hola a todos. One of the reasons I’ve written this “book” of an article (this very lengthy article), is because of something I read on a bisexual guy’s site. He’s a genuine bisexual guy, and not one of these bi liars/frauds who are really gay but lie and say they’re bi because they think that makes them sound more like “a real man” because they supposedly fuck pussy. (Note: this article is not about genuine bisexuals.)

The bisexual blogger wrote: “It seems there’s no shortage of gay guys who fantasize about not being into men anymore. If you’re looking for that trip, look elsewhere.” I was pleased to see he’s not part of the agenda of converting gay guys to being bi or straight. There are quite a few bloggers/sites with an agenda to “turn” gay guys bi or straight. At least approximately ten sites that I know of. They are gay conversion sites, but they don’t call themselves that per se, but they do use that language on occasion on their site. One Latino gay guy wrote about his “conversion” to being straight and his story is promoted on most of these sites. These sites are obsessed with gay guys. Although one of them recently took on lesbians and made the claim that lesbians really want dick.

Most of these sites started during 2017 from my research. The timing of them is suspect. Any connection with El Hombre Naranja/The Orange Man? (Related: The Orange Man’s regime says employers can fire people because they’re gay). A couple of these gay conversion sites have been around for about three years. The homophobic guys (supposedly guys) who run these blogs are on a vigilant campaign to try to make gay guys “turn bi” or “turn straight” because — according to them — “dick belongs in pussy” and pussy is the ultimate of sexual interest and satisfaction. Although that claim does not match the experience of the guys I’ve talked with who have fucked pussy, including my straight neighbor, who has often told me that he wish he were gay. One gay guy told me that before he came out he fucked pussy, although he didn’t say how often. I asked him if he enjoyed it. He said, “It was satisfying — the way he said it he made it sound like it wasn’t any big deal — but I much prefer guys. Females are different with all that emotional baggage. Most guys don’t have that.” My straight neighbour has told me many times, “I’ve often wished I were gay. I think it would be much easier considering my problems with women. They’re just so unpredictable in the emotional department.” I told him what these sites say about sex with females and fucking pussy. He said, “That’s greatly exaggerated. Pussy can feel good but so does jacking off. Every woman feels a bit different. It depends upon how she’s built. And despite the “wetness” and supposed “self lubrication” of pussy that these sites go on about, some women I’ve been with have complained about dryness, especially if they’re on medications, which can make them feel irritated and even painful when getting fucked. Sometimes when I’m with a woman, I prefer to jack off with her than fuck her. To my dick, my hand can feel better than her pussy. I don’t tell any of them that, but some women get huffy because I don’t want to fuck them or at least when it’s time for me to cum.” I’ve heard guys who have fucked both pussy and a guy’s ass say they much prefer fucking a guy’s ass because it’s so much tighter than pussy. Mi amigo/My friend fucked pussy before he came out of the closet. He told me, “Pussy is no big deal. I don’t know what guys see in it. It felt like I was fucking a balloon. I never felt the sensations that these gay conversion sites talk about where the pussy clamps onto or contracts on or clutches the dick. Never felt that, and I didn’t like the smell. The smell alone was enough to turn me off.”

From an early age (at least high school level), our very heteronormative US society brainwashes guys with the “you must love pussy and fuck girls” script in order for them to be considered “normal.” Then, on cue, most guys act on that script throughout their life when having the opportunity. There is a minority of breeder/straight guys (or at least they pretend to be straight) who think more for themselves and rebel from the script and say, “I love my girlfriend (or wife) but I don’t like eating her out because it’s like licking a toilet seat because her anus is right there below her pussy. Yuck.” Or this comment I read from a breeder guy: “I love my girlfriend (they always have to start out with that), but she works at home and doesn’t take a shower every day and she starts to smell around that area. I used to like eating pussy but now I have to do some sniffing around without her noticing to decide if I want to do that now. It’s become really a turn-off. I’m very clean and take a shower every day.” Then there are the “real men” among breeders who like to go on about how they can’t get enough pussy when their chick is having her period. They brag about fucking her or eating her out during her period. All of this is what breeders have been taught to think through society’s programming, whether it be in locker rooms, on sports fields, through their amigos, a guy’s dad, or other means. From what I’ve seen, all advertising and nearly-all programming that’s on television shows him and her together. There are no other couples in the world but breeders. Extremely heteronormative, as if gay couples don’t exist in el mundo/the world.

On the gay conversion sites, “the main site” — that’s what I call it — claims to be run by an atheist and someone who opposes El Hombre Naranja/The Orange Man. Or it all that just a BS front/a lie just like most of the content on his site? The curious thing is that all of these sites share the same content. Repeatedly, I’ve seen the same images and videos on all of these sites. I almost get the impression they are all run by the same person or small group of people with an anti-gay agenda. It’s as if they are a mirror site of each other, even down to the usually “anonymous” comments in response to something on the blog, which are most often gushing praise for the blogger. Comments such as: “I can’t thank you enough for your blog,” (who says that shit?) and how it’s helped some self-identified gay guy go straight. Isn’t that a bit much? Someone can’t thank someone enough for a sex blog of deceit and lies? Or this: “I used to be gay but after fucking a girl for the first time, I’m now 100% straight. You’re right, dick is for pussy.” (roll eyes) Yeah sure, it always works that way, doesn’t it, chico? According to these sites, all guys should be bi or (preferably) straight and if a gay guy watches enough “straight porn” and thinks only about pussy, he can or might be able to “convert.” The main site recently posted an image that read, “Being gay was just a phase for many of us” with the image of a female feeling-up a guy’s white briefs. The main site also spreads ignorance such as straight relationships are more stable and long-term than gay relationships. We all know that’s true, don’t we? That’s why the breeder divorce rate in the US is well over 50%. He also says, “And gay people are more promiscuous than straight people.” Really? I guess this blogger didn’t check out ClosetList personal sex ads or other sex-hook-up sites before writing that lie/disinformation. As for the animated gifs and images on these sites, what most of them do is to take straight video sex scenes and put an anti-gay caption with the video or image to give the reader the (false) impression that the guy eating out the female or fucking her is a gay guy getting pussy for the first time and “is in pussy heaven.” Rather than it more likely being just another straight guy fucking pussy. Or, the impression given is that the guy in the video or gif image has already converted from gay to bi or straight.

These bloggers also promote the idea of a gay guy flippantly breaking up with his boyfriend or partner where the blogger uses the language, “fuck your faggot husband (meaning leave him) and fuck pussy like you’re designed to do.” Or this one: “Whenever Tom’s husband (a gay couple) and Shelly’s husband (a straight couple) run errands together, Tom and his sister-in-law Shelly stay home and share some wine — the drug alcohol is usually involved with gay conversion stories — and get to know each other better as they did recently. The image shows a guy (supposedly Tom) in the missionary position fucking a female (supposedly Shelly). The caption says: Two weeks later, Shelly has a positive pregnancy test, meaning that gay Tom got Shelly pregnant. The blogger says: “Tom’s going to dump his faggot husband and go with Shelly now that he loves pussy. Tom’s husband will have to get over it.” Lovely. I suspect Shelly’s husband will have something to say about this too, possibly of a violent nature! Or another image: The image shows a gay guy sitting on a couch with a big smile and his jock partner is standing nude behind him approaching a female looking at herself in the mirror. The caption: Is this how you would respond (with a big smile) if your boyfriend found a girlfriend and was about to get pussy for the first time?

These bloggers of gay conversion sites with their overlapping content really contradict themselves. They promote gay couples breaking up so that at least one of the gay guys can “turn straight” and go with a chick and fuck pussy. Then out of the other side of their mouth they write about how gay relationships don’t last (which is bull shit). Hypocrites. I personally know of at least three gay couples on my city block who have been together for decades. This is all lies and disinformation. Whereas, it’s been mostly the breeder couples around me who I’ve heard arguing out in public from time-to-time. Mi amigo/My friend has told me repeatedly that when he’s been in San Francisco’s Castro (the former Gay Mecca) that it’s consistently been the breeders — not Queer couples — who are making a scene by arguing loudly over some trivial thing such as he (Mr Breeder) didn’t charge their phone, and Ms Breeder is having a complete emotional meltdown over that.

The content on these sites is all fictional — but it can seem quite real by the way it’s written, which is my concern — in order to fit their anti-gay agenda and that’s what these sites promote. In the personal testimonials (which again, are nearly always anonymously written), the drug alcohol is often involved in the conversion stories. For example, the gay guy gets drunk in a bar or at some party, and has a chick come onto him (sometimes after he has passed out), he has sex with a girl for the first time (but that’s a blur in his mind due to him being drunk) and miraculously the next morning he becomes a “pussy-hound” from then on (after he sort of remembers what he has done). Then comes the gushing praise for the blogger: “Can’t thank you enough for your site.” Then the blogger responds and slaps the alleged new “pussy hound” on the back. “Good job, bro. Enjoy pussy. You’ll please the ladies.” There’s never any mention of the fact that with too much alcohol or any other drug, guys can’t even get a hard-on, so how are they going to fuck pussy and supposedly “convert?”

Most of these sites say their site is their personal fantasy, but that language is usually buried deeply at the back end of the blog unless one spends as much time on them as I have researching their content in order to write this article. Otherwise, one gets the strong impression that the content has nothing whatsoever to do with the blogger’s personal fantasy and/or it’s clearly a very anti-gay, homophobic agenda, which they’ve been accused of in a couple of comments that made it on their blog.

Some of these sites contradict themselves and slip-up on occasion in their content, but someone without attention to detail probably wouldn’t notice that. They hammer away at how dick belongs in pussy and not in ass (an anti-gay reference to some gay guys who enjoy fucking other guys), yet, they’ll show a guy fucking a female in the ass. What? I thought dick belonged in pussy and not ass, according to the blogger? Or is dick perfectly fine in ass if it’s a breeder couples? Maybe that’s it. These bloggers also lack attention to detail. They mix and match video images for their fictional story lines, but if one pays close attention one realises that the supposed gay guys in the first image, for example, are not the same guys in the second image. The images start out with two guys with black hair making out with a female (the caption says it’s a gay couple getting pussy together), but when they’re having sex with “the girl” in the next image the two guys have blond hair. They’re not the same guys at all. LOL. On one gay conversion site, the animated gif was supposedly a gay guy fucking a girl in his bed with the caption reading that the guy’s boyfriend had just arrived home earlier than expected. His partner having sex says, “hey babe, didn’t know you were going to be home so soon” and he keeps fucking the girl in their bed because “he’s a gay guy who really loves pussy.” At first glance, the alleged gay guy appears to be fucking a female. But after I paused the animated gif, I realised that the gay guy was not fucking a girl at all, but rather a guy with hairy legs, nor did I see any indication of boobs on this alleged girl. So that was another lie. I guess the blogger thought no one would notice that it wasn’t a girl on the bottom in bed but instead a rather well-hidden guy. But most people seeing that would believe the fictional story.

Getting chicks pregnant

There’s also no shortage of language about breeding chicks and getting them pregnant, with the consequences rarely talked about. The main site did talk about that recently in a more frank way, but nevertheless was promoting the idea of a gay guy “going straight” and being in a breeder relationship for at least 18 years until the child was of legal age. There is another site that is specifically dedicated to breeding females. That site is run by a supposed gay guy who believes it is his purpose in life to breed chicks and he claims that his male partner fully supports him. He claims to have fathered 5-7 children so far. He claimed to have picked up a food server in a restaurant and fucked her in the back of his truck (shows a video of it, or he claims that’s what it is) and says he gave her his phone number for her to call him should she get pregnant so she too can be one of the mother’s of one of his many children. He makes pregnancy and the expenses associated with pregnancy — as well as all the legal issues/problems that come with parenthood — seem completely frivolous.

There’s also another gay conversion site that claims to involve a gay couple where one of the gay guys converted to being straight after fucking a chick about three times. He told his partner what he had done. His partner was shocked to hear this but found it such a turn-on at the same time and encouraged him to continue to fuck pussy. Today — according to their story — they all live together in a three-way triangle (the chick moved in with the two guys). The original gay couple no longer have sex together because the new “pussy hound” converted gay guy is no longer attracted to his former boy friend nor is he attracted to guys at all, supposedly. (That always happens, doesn’t it?) He only fucks his girlfriend. The three of them wanted a baby together and they already have one child and want another one. His former boyfriend says he has the best orgasms he’s ever had sitting outside his former partner’s locked bedroom door jacking off while listening to his former partner and girlfriend having “man and woman” sex.

These sites play the dishonest “Sexuality is Fluid” Card frequently. Such nonsense. As I said at the top of the page, “sexuality is fluid” implies that one can change or choose one’s sexuality, and most unfortunately that feeds directly into the anti-gay, far-right’s claim that “gay people choose to be gay” which we Queers have heard for decades despite scientific research to the contrary. I call this what it is: Lying about one’s sexuality and sexual orientation. That should be the topic here, and not this bull shit about sexuality being so-called “fluid.” Instead, it’s called lying, deception and being dishonest with oneself and with other people and being in the closet and living a lie — pretending to be a breeder — as seen in the many examples down the page, and particularly with many so-called straight guys who are really bi or gay.

“Sexuality is fluid” is this simple-minded, glib cliché that some idiot with an anti-gay agenda dreamed up to justify people lying about their true sexual orientation to try to give the impression that their sexuality has somehow miraculously changed (and in some cases overnight), when in reality it has not. For example, many guys pretend to be straight (because of their gay shame) — and per society’s heteronormative script for them — when they’re really bi or gay. There are millions of gay guys worldwide married to females and having children out of peer pressure to fulfill the “Family Script.” These gay guys — who are too weak to come out of the closet — find it easier to lie about their sexuality so as not to disappoint their (anti-gay?) parents, relatives and amigos. So they follow the pressured “Family Script” and “get the girl” and get married. Then the pressure on them increases about breeding because their parents and others ask, “When are you going to start a family? (Translation: When are you going to start pumping out babies on an already over-populated planet?) How many kids do you want?” (At least a bus load?) The typical breeder rut/routine. In San Francisco with these new Millennial residents, some of us have noticed that the more effeminate the gay guy — who is married to a female — the more children he likes to pump out in order to “prove how straight he is” as a gay man. There’s a case of that in my neighbourhood. My straight neighbour asked me recently: “What do you think about that gay guy down the street here who is married to a woman and they keep having these loud, obnoxious screaming babies that can be heard all up and down the street? They seem to like the attention that the screaming draws to them.” I said: Oh them. You’ve noticed that he’s a closeted gay guy too? My neighbour said: “He’s pretty obvious.” But in other words, the more a guy breeds proves how straight he is, in some people’s twisted minds. And our society is full of gay closet cases married to females with children. When they finally come out of the closet — if they ever do — some people use the “sexuality is fluid” bull shit. What’s “fluid” was lying to begin with about one’s genuine sexual orientation. Guys have been lying about their true gay or bi sexuality for decades as weak gay or bi closet cases. Just look at all the lying bi and gay guys calling themselves “str8″ in men-for-men personal sex ads.

Many closeted guys these days are using the term “curious” as in “straight but curious.” “Curious” is a sanitised word for “I’m slowly crawling out of the closet” — while remaining in the closet — if the reader understands what I mean by that, because the gay or bi guy continues to call himself “discreet” and “down low,” which are code words for closeted. It’s most often gay guys who have been in the closet for years pretending to be straight and married to a female with children who say “I’m curious and want to get together with another guy.” You’re not “curious,” chico. You’re slowly crawling out of that moldy closet you put yourself in decades ago. You might be interested in what it’s really like to have sex with a guy if you’ve never done that before and that could be described as “curious,” but after you’ve had sex with a guy once, twice or a few times, what’s there to be “curious” about?

Back to these gay conversion sites: Then there was their story about a guy who’s sexuality changed from gay to straight solely because he started working out at the gym and became a muscle jock bro (translation: a “real man.”) After doing so, he became a “pussy hound” according to the gay conversion sites. Hmmmmmmmm. Working out at the gym changes one’s sexual orientation? Who knew? That’s a new one. What will they come up with next?

Then there’s this story one of the sites created about a gay guy who “went straight.” I’m not going to relate that entire lengthy story. In the end, he dumped his “faggot boyfriend” by text message using other homophobic language as well. He told his “faggot boyfriend” to be out of his apartment by the time he got home. (What a lovely way to treat your now-former and unsuspecting boyfriend). He told his boyfriend, “This is a picture of my new girlfriend.” At that point he had already gotten “his girl” pregnant, according to the story. I forget just how I researched that particular story, but I found the guy’s pictures elsewhere online. As it turns out, he’s a fairly well-known singer or actor, and today he’s very much gay. So this guy in their fictional story never “converted” from gay to straight. One of the gay conversion sites who wrote the story merely stole his pictures to go with their fictional story line/lie. I guess they thought he’d never visit their blog and no one would research it, or the other “mirror sites” sharing their story to see his pictures there. But it was all a lie.

The main site is extremely vigilant on how terrible “gay sex” is and how superior bi or straight pussy sex is. That blogger has many lists — based in a lot of stereotypical ignorance — of the problems with gay sex, especially anal sex. He seems to forget that many bi and straight guys engage in anal sex with females so “the problems” with anal sex runs across the board. A female can be just as unclean — anus or vagina — as a gay guy.

Some of the images used on these gay conversion sites could be construed as rape images by the way the guy is holding the female down with one hand firmly around her neck while fucking her/breeding her (according to the captions). Clearly a macho domination scene.

Then there’s the topic of “bisexual erasure.” The caption shows a gay couple on a beach and of course one of the guys smokes cigarettes. (BTW, smoking cigarettes makes one “a real man” to “get the girl” is the implication and seems to be a requirement with gay conversion.) The caption the blogger wrote was about how the two gay guys (a gay couple) enjoy checking out the girls on the beach and deciding which one they wouldn’t mind taking back to their place and fucking together. It ends with “Isn’t bisexual erasure wonderful?”

As for the “sexuality is fluid” anti-gay agenda, that is going to ultimately backfire on the Queer community should the Queer community embrace it, as some already are unfortunately. It will backfire because the far-right/anti-gay crowd will say: Why do gay people need any “special rights” — that’s their ludicrous description of basic human rights which breeders automatically have with their straight privilege, but Queers don’t — or why do gays need any more rights than they already have (even as our rights are being taken away under The Orange Man’s repugnant regime, such as trans rights in the workplace) when gays themselves say that “sexuality is fluid” or changeable? Why don’t gays just “turn straight” and they will have any and all rights they want with breeder privileges? Unfortunately, I’ve already seen some Queers using this “sexuality is fluid” nonsense, even on Queer sites. Yes, some have already fallen for it. Moronic.

While writing this article, I asked everyone I could think of — including my straight neighbour — if their “sexuality is fluid” or if their sexuality had changed over the years? 100% of them assured me that their sexuality had not changed. Some people I asked found the notion of that laughable. They asked me, “Are you serious?”

I read a comment — supposedly a true story — on a message forum from a lesbian who got drunk one night and she had sex with her best friend (a straight guy) and did not understand why she did that. He didn’t understand why she came onto him either and asked her “Are you sure you want to do this?” She seemed to be asking for advice on the message forum she posted on. The comments to her from other conformist Queers were: “Just remember that sexuality is fluid.” Ugh. Sigh. Fucking Idiots. It was the fucking drug alcohol that caused her to be a different person, not her sexuality, you fools. The next day, she was at a loss why she had sex with her best friend. Is she that dense? Has she never heard what can happen to people under the influence of the drug alcohol? She’s never heard they can become completely different people under the influence of alcohol? (Stupid is in).

The drug alcohol is required for gay conversion?

From reading these gay conversion sites, most gay guys in their testimonials and stories who claim to have supposedly converted to either bi or straight fucked pussy the first time under the influence of the drug alcohol. That’s a common theme.

Also, what all of these sites fail to say is that many gay guys started out fucking pussy in high school when they were in the closet, and they ran from pussy and the smell of pussy. They were turned off by it and realised they were Queer and wanted dick.

If the Queer community falls for this “sexuality is fluid” bull shit as a unified group and promotes the idea that one can change one’s sexuality, it’s all over for Queer rights. And that’s probably what the intent is here, because again, the sheeple and the far-right will say there’s no need for Queer rights because Queers can “turn straight.” And with that, we’ll be right back where we started with the sheeple thinking that “gay people choose to be gay” because the sheeple and ultra-conservatives/far-right will say, “well gays themselves say that ‘sexuality is fluid.’” Any moron should be able to see where this is going.

Below are some quotes I read on a Queer site. I found it interesting that all of these self-described “straight” guys — who are lying to themselves and others about their true/real sexual orientation — quoted below were hanging out on a Queer site that has the word Queer in its title. It’s not that there was any doubt or vagueness over where they were. I wonder why they might be hanging out there? Hmmmmmmmmmm? I don’t go to sites that identity as straight. Here are the comments exactly as they appeared followed by my response.

“so i have a gf of almost 3 years and recently started to jack off to gay porn, i dont know wht it is about it but it kinda turns me on, i was just wondering if anybody else is in the same boat as me. would love to hear from you!! “

My response: You wrote, “so I have a gf of almost 3 years” but you forgot to say that she’s out of town like everyone else’s girlfriend. Please be advised that you’re not in keeping with the “straight and bi” script where “the GF” is always out of town, according to their sex ads. Do you call yourself straight because of our heteronormative straight-based society? Sounds like you’re really bi, so stop lying about your sexual orientation by calling yourself straight, if that’s the label you use.

A response from someone to the guy claiming to have a gf:

“i have to go with you on this one. I would never want to engage in gay sex [my emphasis added], but watching it somehow makes me hard as a rock. I have only watched a movie once, but I read stories on the net some. Matter of fact i am hard now just thinking about it.”

My response: Sounds like you’re bi or gay too since it turns you on and makes you “hard as a rock,” and you’re likely another closet case. Why would you never want to engage in gay sex when you’re sitting there with a hard-on thinking about gay sex? Because of your gay shame? A credible psychotherapist can help you deal with your gay shame.

Another commenter wrote:

“I’m straight, but i do watch gay porn and guys masturbating. I thought that was weird until i looked at the other reviews. Good to know a lot of guys do that.”

My response: Chico, you’re not straight, you’re bi. Genuine straight guys — such as my straight neighbour — have no interest in guys or in watching them JO. Stop your lying and dishonesty.

Another commenter:

“Thank goodness i am not the only one. Im Straight but watch gay porn. I love girls, but gay just turns me on from time to time.”

My response: You’re bi too. So you too can stop with this “straight” head trip from now on.

Another commenter:

“im str8 but ive masturbated with my friends and one time one of my friends and i started oral, then it lead to anal. ive wanted to try again because it felt so good but im afraid to bring it up again. so i masturbate and think about it insted.”

My response: Stop lying about being straight. jesus fucking christ. You’re either bi or gay. Again, genuine straight guys don’t get off on guys with oral or anal. Bi and gay guys do that.

It’s at this point that someone will scream at me: WOULD YOU STOP IT WITH THE LABELS?! Why should I do that? We have the labels for a reason and wasn’t it the Queer community who created the labels? And now some in the Queer community find the labels uncomfortable — tough luck! — and want us to suspend with them? How are we supposed to identify someone’s sexuality if we don’t use the labels we created? Doh.

Another commenter:

“I don’t know why. I consider myself straight [Ed. people consider themselves all kinds of things but that doesn't mean that they are], I’ve always been attracted to women, I’ve had sex with women and it’s all good … But when I’m horny I sometimes have this fantasy of while laying down on my back and having a gorgeous girl ride my dick, a man to stand over me with his big cock and I can really imagine myself saying give it to me. Being pinned down and sucking away I wouldn’t be able to say no. Even writing this I have a hard on lol.”

My response: Chico, you’re bi since you’re turned on by “his big cock.” So stop with this “straight” bull shit.

All of these lying, dishonest, heteronormative guys calling themselves “straight” when they’re not. Just like the lying closet cases on ClosetList that I have written reams about. They’re all looking for a guy on the “DL” (down low) and “discreet” (closeted) and of course they all have a GF and she’s constantly out of town. GFs are always out of town. Why is that? Because they don’t exist. There is no GF. It’s just part of the heteronormative script used by “Mr Straight” to pump himself up as being a “real man” who claims to fuck pussy.

Another commenter:

“Not just that, I wonder what it would be like to be fucked, just to have a big warm penis sliding inside of me taking advantage of me, sometimes I even picture myself jerking off slowly with a sexy girl to the left, and having a guy with a juicy cock to the right, and having to choose which one I want.”

My response: Sigh. You’re bi too. All of these closeted bi guys. Pathetic dishonesty.

Another commenter:

“to be honest ive giving head lots now and i know im not bi or gay i love girls but love sucking big cock.”

My response: You’re bi too, despite your denial and “straight” head trip. Dude, there is nothing wrong with being bi or gay. Stop lying to yourself and others.

Someone astutely noted in the comments under the article:

“yeah those men were bisexual not straight. I can assure you if you try to have sex with straight guys you’re gonna get a totally different reaction.”

Exactamente. Gracias for that.

Another commenter wrote:

“straight men don’t fantasize about sucking one off. #closetcases”

You’re absolutely correct.

Then there are the many gay guys in sex ads who claim to be “str8.” More lying and dishonesty.

Then, there are the liars who say, “I’m not gay but I have an overwhelming desire to suck cock.” Well then you are gay or bi, chico. But your issue of gay shame — indoctrinated into you by our sick society — is holding you back from being honest with yourself and others.

I should point out that many people have sexual fantasies that don’t at all “match”/coincide/agree with who they are as a person in their daily/non-sexual lives. Some people have — what they themselves call — “very twisted/taboo” sexual fantasies. These fantasies appear only in a sexual context and are the opposite of the person that most people know the person to be. I did phone counseling for many years. We were all professionally-trained before taking the first call. The stories I could tell! I talked with some people who had what most people would call “twisted sexual fantasies.” Some people need the most taboo of topics/fantasies in order to “get off.” That’s just the way it is for them. We, as phone counselors, remained non-judgemental with all callers. That’s, in part, why nothing phases me these days. I’ve heard it all. It was a very valuable experience. Some years ago, I ran into one of the other phone counselors I had worked. We talked a bit and she said at the end, “you know, after that experience, nothing phases me anymore.” I said: Yes, the same here. We would have a lot less judgmental people in our society if they were to have the same experience we did.

Back to the gay conversion sites: I noticed more ignorance from the main site. That blogger suggested that gay guys “put that Rainbow Flag away” and that they could save money on clothes by “going bi or straight.” He wrote: “You can say goodbye to your fabulous color-coded closet filled with things you’ve only worn once. You can cut back on the gym because women really dig the dad bod. No more expensive hair appointments – just throw on a baseball cap. No more 50 pairs of designer underwear – you can go commando.” This guy sounds just like the typical closet case, regardless of what he calls himself or how he describes his sexuality. Why doesn’t he come out back out of the closet and enjoy gay life with all the colours and pretty underwear? Where has he been not to have noticed that most Queers today are not wearing any “fabulous color-coded” clothes? Being adamant conformists, most Queers are wearing Millennial drab/cultist black and grey. At least in now-conservative and conformist San Francisco they are. And most Queers today seem to want nothing to do with the Rainbow Flag because it’s considered to be “too gay.” During the Gay Mecca years, we used to see Rainbow Flag pins on guy’s backpacks and shoulder bags. Today? Gone. Those pins have been retired to the closet along with the gay guy in many cases. Also, Queer gym memberships are way down — as if it were just a fad for many — according to mi amigo who still has his gym membership. And cutting back on the gym can mean a less healthy person. What does this asshole think going to the gym is for? It’s supposed to be for health reasons. He makes it sound like it’s purely for cosmetic reasons. If one does the gym correctly, one gets the “cosmetics” as a side effect of the positive health effects. There are already no shortage of gay “jock bros” wearing a baseball cap. In fact, all that’s required for one to be a “jock bro” is to slap on a baseball cap and put on a jock and there you go: You’re now instantly Mr Jock, according to the sex ads. You don’t have to do any workouts or play any sports or anything like that. Just the baseball cap and jock. But you must grunt and hoot at sports television screens in loud sports bars often filled with obnoxious breeders. And many gay guys today love emulating the breeders and trying to be as “straight acting” as possible. And I don’t see anyone around The Castro who looks like they had “expensive hair appointments.” That’s rather outdated. I think this blogger is stuck in the 1980s.

Looking at men-for-men sex ads on CL (regardless of which major city it is), most of the Queer community today lies and pretends to be “bi” — as I said earlier, they are running from and are ashamed of the word “gay” (because gay sounds to “fem” to them apparently?) — yet these fake “bi” guys are always looking for guys to have sex with and are never over in the men-seeking-women category looking for “bi sex.”

For example, when I began writing this article, the following are the search results as of septiembre 2017/September 2017 on ClosetList for the entire San Francisco Bay Area in the Men-seeking-Men category:

334 ads contain the keyword gay
78 ads contain the abbreviation GWM
207 ads contain the abbreviation WM (shunning the word gay?)
881 ads contain the keyword bi (see what I mean?)
625 ads contain the keyword straight
279 ads contain the keyword/abbreviation str8

For the City and County of San Francisco:

Only 124 ads contain the keyword gay (is that what one would expect for the former Gay Mecca?)
Only 49 ads contain the abbreviation GWM (again, is that what one would expect for the former Gay Mecca?)
69 ads contain the abbreviation WM
309 ads contain the keyword word bi
191 ads contain the keyword straight
113 ads contain the keyword/abbreviation str8

Now does anyone honestly believe that the Gay/Queer Community is no longer gay but has as a community “turned bi?” (roll eyes) Loco. Who believes that? What’s happening here is technically called being heteronormative and merely copying each other’s ads to fit in with the herd.

I talked with a gay guy in New York City, Manhattan specifically, while writing this and he told me that in NYC more gay guys are out of closet than ever before (although he told me he has many problems with the Queer community there). That’s not what the CL ads for NYC show. Searching the CL ads, the Queer community in Manhattan and/or NYC is no different than and just as fucked up as the Queer community in San Francisco and the Bay Area. And why wouldn’t it be? Except for two major cities worldwide (and I forget which ones they were), I got similar results worldwide when I searched CL ads sometime ago. I’ve even written about New York City: The “Discreet” Gay Guys in New York City.

Achieve gay marriage and then start marrying females? WTF?

I just find it damn odd that after the Queer community worked for decades to achieve gay marriage, that some gay guys would start marrying females after gay marriage became legal (WTF?)– related: More back to the 1950s: Gay guys marrying females in droves. Sad. — and want to be with a female? Then why the fuck did they bother working for gay marriage for decades if in the end being with a female was what they would ultimately want/choose? Loco./Crazy./Fucking Insanity. The main gay conversion site addressed this, and as expected, called a gay guy’s choice to be with or marry a female after gay marriage became legal, “a perfectly viable choice.” Oh Fuck Off, you closet case asshole!

Another reason I’ve written this article, is because what I’ve said here I would not be allowed to say on any of these sites — without being ridiculed and trolled, and told to “just go jack off to this pussy porn and go straight or bi — so maybe this article will come up in the appropriate search results and gay guys will read it. Chau.—el barrio rosa

UPDATE: Yet another gay conversion site has popped up. Some of the stories lines: A gay guy discovers that females give the best blow job (this will be a surprise to gay guys who started out in the closet with females) and when they came out quickly learned that guys give the best blow jobs, and in this instance the gay guy follows through on his promise that he will now dump his boyfriend and go with this female who supposedly gave him the best blow job ever. That’s how he chooses his partners. Shallow. Then there are the many cheating stories of the gay guy who is going straight after trying pussy. In one of these fictional stories, his partner thinks he’s on a business trip but instead he’s cheating on his partner with a woman and fucking her in their hotel. He calls his partner to tell him to cancel their anniversary celebration — what a fucking asshole — because his “business” trip is taking longer than expected and he won’t be back in time. The animated gif shows a guy fucking this female with the caption being that a few months later he’s married to a woman and well on his way to starting “a real family,” implying that Queer families are not “real families.” The site also uses the pejorative words “faggot” and “fag” a lot. Their anti-gay message is noted.

On the main gay conversion site that I referred to up above in the article, I don’t remember if I said this (and I don’t feel like reading through it all to find out whether I did or not), that blogger consistently rejects the repeated claim from some readers that he’s anti-gay. He’s either in denial or playing stupid. He is most definitely anti-gay despite the rare times that he writes something to try to give the impression that he’s somewhat pro-gay to counter those ongoing anti-gay claims. When he writes shit like this: dick belongs in pussy, dicks are for chicks, no baby was ever born out of a man’s ass (my question: who wants a baby in an already over-populated world?), you get straight privilege by being with a woman, and pussy is so much better than dick. All that sounds pretty anti-gay and right-wing to me. And there are many other examples I could give from his site. Interesting how he thinks everyone should be just like him and that they should have his life/sexuality. I guess he hasn’t heard that there are people who like different things different ways. It’s called diversity. After reading his site, there is no shortage whatsoever of anti-gay messages/captions found throughout his blog, despite his ongoing denial/lying that he’s not anti-gay. Finally, on that same site (which I refer to as the “main site”), he takes this sort of parental, lecturing, teacher-approach as if he thinks he’s such an authority and expert on sexuality and as if everyone is just waiting for his valuable opinions. So to all of these anonymous comments that he supposedly gets (or does he write them all himself?), he writes these suggestions to people of what they should do to help them along in their attempt to go bi or straight. Someone wrote him and said they had tried to go straight but it didn’t work and they felt disgusted with themselves for trying. He said that it doesn’t work for everyone and “try to be the best gay guy you can be.” What the fuck is that supposed to mean? That’s an example of what I’m talking about. As a self-appointed “authority” I guess he felt he needed to say that. In reality, he’s just some asshole on a power trip. He’s quite ignorant and anti-gay about human sexuality, at least from my studies of human sexuality. Such as his comment about “dick doesn’t belong in the ass”/”Your ass wasn’t made to take a dick and the lining of the rectum is easily torn from anal sex.” Yet he seems to have no problem with a dick being in the ass of a female which is common with breeder couples when she is on the rag. No, he only has a problem with a dick being in the ass for gay guys. He lectures readers that, “if you really want to have children and a family, why not just get the gay out of your system when you’re young and then find a woman to settle down and have a family with?” Oh no, you’re not at all anti-gay, you fucking asshole. I don’t at all pretend to be an expert or authority on human sexuality, and certainly wouldn’t give readers recommendations unless they asked for my opinion. He seems to live under the illusion that the world is waiting with baited breathe for his valuable information about human sexuality. Ugh.

UPDATE (enero/January 2018):

How is that “gay assimilation” shit and that gay conversion shit working out about now? Mi amigo/My friend found this article (link below) and as soon as he brought it up I said: Oh that idiot. I remember him and that pathetic story. I guess his “gay conversion to being straight” didn’t work (imagine that!) since he’s getting a divorce from his esposa/wife and has finally come out of the closet. I guess pussy didn’t “cure” him the way the anti-gay asshole gay conversion sites like to lie and claim it does:”

This Gay Mormon Man Who Got Famous For Marrying A Straight Woman Is Getting Divorced
“The couple is now apologizing to the GLBTQ community for how the “publicity of our supposedly successful marriage” has been “used to bully others.”
Josh Weed, who made headlines in 2012 for coming out as a gay Mormon man in a straight marriage, announced Thursday that he and his wife, Lolly, are getting divorced.”

This divorce comes after pumping out 4 children — was he trying to prove how supposedly straight he was ?? — with one child still in a stroller. If he had come out to begin with as a Queer boy that he is and stopped lying to himself he wouldn’t be in this mess to begin with, with upcoming child support payments, the possible emotional consequences on and damage to his children, etc. Is he still in that Latter Day Saints church? Get out of it! They are one of the worst Christian denominations around. A bunch of fucking mostly white bigots. Most religions — especially fundamentalists — can really fuck up people’s lives. Chau.—el barrio rosa

Related:

Marketing Pussy to Gay Guys

Well, pussy must not be all that hot considering all the emotional baggage and financial demands that come with it. Here’s something they don’t talk about (or very rarely) at these gay conversion sites: Cost-benefit analysis: girlfriend vs. fleshlight

14 comments on “Gay Conversion

  1. I was gay. Now I'm bi.

    After reading both your original piece and your response to my response, it is now clear to me that you come from an older generation and are clueless about how social media and erotica in the 21st century work.

    The world has changed quite significantly since Stonewall, the March on Washington, and the days when you had to go to a bookstore in the Castro– and enter through the back door to protect your anonymity– to find gay porn in the form of magazines and VHS tapes. I’m not sure you are aware of how much the world has changed since those days. That you refer to my page as a “site” and conclude that because the material seen on my page is borrowed from and shared on other pages indicates one person running numerous “sites” demonstrates that the basic social media practices of sharing, following, and reblogging go right over your bald and aging head.

    Back in your day, coming out of the closet was something you did if you had previously hidden your gayness to avoid oppression and persecution from family, friends, and society, and decided to live openly as who you are. There was no bisexuality. There was no sexual fluidity. Well, actually, there were both. But because it was so critical that certain civil rights gains be achieved, bisexuals and sexually fluid people incorrectly identified as “gay” and “lesbian” so they could be counted in the “Lesbian and Gay” numbers that the activists believed were needed to fight the power.

    Therefore, in the world of your heyday, there was only Gay and Lesbian. There was no bisexual. There was no pansexual. There was no fluid sexuality. Those concepts were dangerous to civil rights because of the mere suggestion that some “gay” people might be able to play sometimes on the other team– which, of course, would cause the whole “We were born this way and can’t change” premise to unravel.

    Fast forward 30 years.

    Most people who come out do so between the ages of 11 and 15. Public schools have LGBTQ clubs. It’s not difficult to find entertainers who are LGBT, nor is it hard to turn on the TV and see LGBTQ characters portrayed positively in fiction. Pornhub is exploding with gay porn of every genre imaginable. Pornhub…that’s a website (yes, an actual site and not a blog or social media page) where you can watch porn for free, like an X-rated Youtube. Youtube is a website where users upload content of every type, on every topic imaginable (in case you weren’t aware).

    And so young people today have no need for rigid identity labels. Why would it be such a stretch for someone who came out gay at age 11 to discover, at say, age 23, that he really does like women after all? The pendulum has swung the other way. And today, such a person would be ostracized and ridiculed by people like you as “going back in the closet”. But that journey is just as valid as the 11 year old who thinks he likes girls (you know, because he has that one special female friend) and then discovers at age 23 that he really finds guys to be hot. In both examples, the person is probably bisexual. The difference is they come at it from different directions.

    Why do I post blatantly homophobic memes? Because I find the concept of conversion and discovering a latent love of pussy to be erotic. It gets me off. I see a slogan like “No baby was ever born out of a man’s ass” and an accompanying photo of a man plowing a woman’s cunt and it makes me rock hard. It has the same effect on other people too, as we tend to FOLLOW each other and REBLOG each other’s material. You might notice that the more provocative the meme, the greater number of likes and shares it receives. So that’s why I post that stuff. It’s exciting to some and tickles the erotic fantasies of those who consume it.

    You might also take a look around the same platform my site in on and check out some of the more extreme fetish material that’s out there. Such as pictures of men being pissed on or sucking dick in a bukkake fashion, the caption reading “What a faggot was made for”…or a man holding out his raging hard and huge cock, as if to offer it to the viewer to fellate, with a caption that says, “What are you standing there for? Get to work, faggot!” No, homophobic imagery is not limited to my genre. It’s all over the BDSM scene. There is eroticism in homophobia. In fact, it’s a fetish held entirely by gay men. True straight men rarely, if ever, get off on the idea of having a “cash fag” suck his dick and take his abuse. It’s the gay men who fantasize about being some homophobic straight alpha male’s “faggot bitch.” You may not realize or accept that. But it’s reality. We’re long past the days of the campy gay porn magazine on the shelf at the gay bookstore.

    I also have a lot of written material that isn’t intended to be erotic. I often share my thoughts about coming out of the closet from gay to bi. I answer the comments of other bloggers. When you read this material, you are seeing me as I am. When you see my provocative memes, you are seeing material that is intended to arouse sexual fantasies. I guess your misunderstanding might be partially my fault as I put all of the above on my page and make no disclaimers as to which is intended as fantasy and which is sharing my thoughts as they are. But anyone who gets it doesn’t really need such an explanation and I am definitely not one to cater to the trigger warning/safe space victim culture that is very present today.

    So whether you like what I write or not, my journey from being a 100% gay-identified male to a bisexual male is 100% real. I have real, genuine thoughts on that tranistion. There are also plenty of things that get me off that are the furthest thing imaginable from political correctness. In fact, it’s that lack of political correctness that is part of the turnon. These are strange times we live in if you are still married to the past. I really think you should broaden your horizons.

    Signing out.

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    1. castro local

      hahahahaha

      dude – hope you shot a good load to that!!!!!

      >>>The world has changed quite significantly since Stonewall, the March on Washington, and the days when you had to go to a bookstore in the Castro– and enter through the back door to protect your anonymity– to find gay porn in the form of magazines and VHS tapes. <<<

      i take it you've never been to the castro. we didn't go through any back doors to hide or be anoymous. there are no back doors to even get to….they're sealed back yards. being anonymous wasn't what the castro was about. we didn't hide what we did. the castro was so open and wild in those days……it has quite the history of open nudity and some sex on the sidewalks. not that way now but it was then. there weren't any back doors to go through. we walked right through the front door of the jaguar bookstore on 18th street when that was there. the same for all other businesses.

      your thing about bisexual ain't true either. i knew a couple of guys who were bi but i only knew them to have sex with guys, me being one them. their bi side was limited to watching pussy porn where they were horny for the guys fucking chicks. the castro was basically gay men, which some lesbians and others complained about…not being included. lesbians hung out in noe valley. the castro was an enclave of gay men and then the lesbians, bisexuals, and transgender and other folks were there sometimes. we've never seen a complete takeover of the castro the way we are nowdays with the str8 couples taking over the castro village, including bi neighbors who are all getting evicted.

      you're really so pompous and sure of yourself about being accurate…..when really you're not at all.

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      1. I was gay. Now I'm bi.

        Well, I guess my total misconception of the Castro back in the day is quite similar to your misconception of the erotic community that I belong to.

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      2. E in Sunnyvale (Googlevale? Applevale?)

        you’re really so pompous and sure of yourself about being accurate…..when really you’re not at all.

        It’s a Millennial thing…

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    2. D8

      “your bald and aging head. ”

      To pink barrio: I’m glad you ignored the ageist remark. If you’re bald, don’t feel badly. Nothing wrong with that. A guy in our office was bald at age 30.

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      1. el barrio rosa Post author

        Hola D8 – No, I’m not bald. Many people look good bald, I think.

        I have a faux hawk which I’ve had for about 5 years. I like it. It’s part of the alternative and proudly-rad Old City of San Francisco, regardless of the person’s age. I still occasionally see some people with faux hawks but not too many in this extremely now-conformist City where most people look very conservative, especially these snotty Millennial assholes. Gracias.

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        1. castro local

          aren’t faux hawks expensive to keep up?….so they don’[t grow out? i wanted to have my hair cut that way but didn’t think i could afford the upkeep so it would have been a one time thing.

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          1. el barrio rosa Post author

            Hola castro local – my faux hawk is homemade (mi amigo does it for me) so it doesn’t cost me anything. I prefer the homemade ones, which is mostly what I see out and about when I see them. I think most people do their own and I can usually tell the homemade ones. They sometimes look a little off or not quite even. I think that makes them look a little more interesting. Mine has been like that on occasion but I don’t mind. I think it makes them look more “rad” that way. Sometimes they’re real narrow and other times wider. Sometimes short, other times longer. Depends upon the mood. If I had to pay for mine, I don’t know that I would have it. I think that would get quite expensive. Gracias.

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  2. D8

    I saw this article when you first posted it but forgot to read it. “Back in the day” meaning the days of the gay mecca years there wasn’t any effort to turn gay guys on into pussy. How come every time the right wing get into office there’s this great push to turn queer boys into straight boys? This doesn’t make any sense to me since all these queers boys would be looking for women which would mean that there would be less pussy for the straight guys. Follow what I’m saying? Why would these closeted gay guys trying to make everyone think that they’re bi or straight guys want to lose more pussy by having gays guys get it instead of them? That guy who wrote you sounds like the opposite of how he descrigbes himself. Probably all a front and his way of convincing gay guys that hey, “i’m just a cool straight guy trying to show you the pleasure of pussy.” Hope all of that makes sense….may not have worded it exactly right.

    I’ve told you about my gay friend who wigged out and went back in the closet because he said being gay wasn’t right and that “all my friends are going back in the closet.” He lied at his new job about having a girl friend then when he got together with someone from his old job for lunch one day where he was openly gay with someone there from the new job this all came out. Looked really bad and this got back to his coworkers at his new job and they lost all trust in him. He came crawling back to me recently. Said he had tried to get into pussy to go straight but it left him in an emtional upheaval. Ended up in therapy. I didn’t see him for sometime because he’d turned me off. Said he didn’t know what came over him but he’s now back to being the openly gay guy I once knew. I’d never asked him much about this but he came forward with what happened. He said that some sites online like the ones you’ve written about caused him emotional harm and really messed up his head. That should be a warning to everyone. I’m glad we’re friends again. I missed his companionship and his therapist was able to work with him to get him back to being the person I used to know. I asked him about his friends who had gone back in the closet. He’s lost contact with them but he said he does know that some of them were going through the same thing. Trying to change into straight or bi when they’re gay and it wasn’t working.

    By the way, appreciate your responses to that guy.

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  3. I was gay. Now I'm bi.

    My site is “the main site?” Really? While I’m flattered that you think my blog is influential enough to be called a “main site,” I really do think you give me too much credit. I am just another member of the bisexual male community who has a life story that goes against activist orthodoxy.

    Yes, I say “activist orthodoxy” because somebody somewhere decided that bicuriosity only works one way: from straight to bi to gay. This is particularly true if you are a male, as women are given the freedom to be more fluid in their sexuality. Nobody cares when a woman goes from being bisexual to straight to lesbian to back to straight. But the sexuality of men is only allowed to move in one direction.

    And I get it. The LGBT civil rights movement was based on the notion that gay people are the way they are because they’re born that way and can’t change. There’s only one problem with that: it’s not true. It never was true. It never will be true. There is no gay gene. There is no gay brain. There is no physiological differences between gay, straight, and bisexual people.

    Does that mean being gay is a choice? No. But here’s the thing…it doesn’t matter.

    Instead of pushing pseudoscience, why not just not fight for civil rights with the premise that it doesn’t matter who we love, who we want to be with, who we want to marry? in a free society, people get to make those choices for themselves and nobody has the right to tell them otherwise. Instead of saying it’s your constitutional right as a man to marry another man, why not assert it’s your constitutional right to marry anybody you damn well please?

    Seems to me like that civil rights premise has much more strength and power than “Oh! This is who I am and I can’t help it”

    You say that you think sexual fluidity is a bunch of garbage, but you actually don’t believe that. You would welcome with open arms a man who says he has identified as straight all of his life, but has just now come to terms with his growing desires for other men. But yet you piss all over the guy who says he’s been gay most of his life but now has taken a sexual interest in women. You call his fantasies homophobic and say he’s playing into the religious right by describing his experience as “sexual fluidity.”

    The gay community has created a very hostile environment for those who find themselves discovering latent heterosexual tendencies. In a way, it’s become somewhat of a forbidden lust– the new love that dare not speak its name. And where there’s a taboo, there’s a fetish. That’s why you see so many sites that focus on the erotic aspects of relishing in this taboo and going against the activist orthodoxy. In a perverse way, it gives some of us a hard on to think that we are embracing pussy in a way that would offend the gay purists. Yes, I get why some would be put off by that imagery. But nevertheless, it makes for some very exciting jack off material.

    As for myself, I embraced my bisexuality about 10 years ago. In my youth, I identified as 100% gay. I no longer do. I discovered my interest in women and I now identify as bisexual. As your piece states, I am an atheist, a progressive, and a Trump hater. I am also proudly bisexual and if you go to a mens’ sex club in Phoenix or Palm Springs, you might even run into me sometime. Until the day I find a partner, I place no restrictions on myself as far as who I’ll fuck.

    Sincerely,
    I was gay. Now I’m bi.
    “The Main Site”

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    1. el barrio rosa Post author

      (Updated Response)

      Hola. You wrote:

      “Instead of saying it’s your constitutional right as a man to marry another man, why not assert it’s your constitutional right to marry anybody you damn well please?”

      Because that would still be vague to many people. That’s because we live in a very heteronormative society with a Breeder Agenda. It’s all about “him and her” everywhere you look. Dominant him making out and/or fawning over submissive/non-feminist her. In our heteronormative society, to many (most?) people, “marry anybody you damn well please” can still imply it’s the opposite gender you’re talking about. In other words, a closeted gay guy marrying a female. There’s no shortage of them. That’s why Queers specifically chose the language gay marriage or same-gender marriage, because there’s no doubt what that means. No confusion over the language, assuming that’s what you’re talking about.

      “You would welcome with open arms a man who says he has identified as straight all of his life, but has just now come to terms with his growing desires for other men. …”

      No, it has nothing to do with “his growing desires for other men.” His desire for men was there from Day One. And this has nothing to do with that “sexual fluidity” nonsense, which I always like to point out directly caters to the far-right agenda thinking that gay people choose to be gay and can change their sexuality to straight if they want to. Bull shit. So “His desire for other men” has to do with him finally coming out of the closet after living a lie and being a fraud for decades and following “The Family Script” of what his often bigoted and prejudiced family expected of him/wanted of him:

      The Family Script (if you’re a guy): Find the girl, get married and breed, and shove your hetero-self in Queer’s faces while at the same time whining about Queers by saying, “I hate it when gays make out in public and shove their sexuality in our (breeder) faces” while the breeders are making out in front of Queers. The hypocrisy! That’s why I would welcome such a person with open arms finally coming out of the closet and being who he is.

      You wrote:

      “But yet you piss all over the guy who says he’s been gay most of his life but now has taken a sexual interest in women.”

      I’ve never known anyone like that and I don’t know anyone who has. It’s always the other way around. “Straight” (or closet case) to gay. The guy finally came out of the closet. Not gay to straight (going back in the closet is what it amounts to). I’ve read lots about “gay to bi (or preferably straight)” on the gay conversion sites with all their made up, fictional stories and fake testimonials written by the sites themselves (usually as “anonymous” – they’re not fooling anyone) to promote their Breeder Agenda, some of which is very anti-gay material while they deny that. The stuff on your site is fed into the other sites which gives the impression that it’s all one person running most of them with his anti-gay, Breeder Agenda.

      I thought I read on your site where you said that you’re now straight (despite the name of your site) and married to or with a woman and have no interest in guys or in sucking dick. Because as you have written repeatedly in image captions and in other texts:

      “Dick belongs in pussy.” You don’t think that’s anti-gay? What about a (straight) guy that prefers to jack off? In that situation, his dick is not in pussy.

      “No baby was ever born out of a man’s ass.” No baby was ever born out of a female’s ass either when her male partner insists on fucking her in the ass because she’s ovulating, on her (nasty) period or because her ass feels much tighter to him than her loose pussy and he prefers her ass over her pussy as many straight guys do. Also, why do you promote breeding and pregnancy on your site when our planet is already overpopulated, or are you not aware of that, as a so-called “progressive?”

      “Going straight to have a family” with an image of a dick fucking pussy. It’s as if you’ve never heard of artificial insemination or other ways such as adoption for a gay guy (a gay couple) to have a child/a family other than by fucking pussy. You also have that image of “This is ex-gay” (the desired effect?) with a guy fucking pussy as if pussy is the ultimate. Or that image where you wrote “Gay was just a phase for some of us.” That’s the mentality of the anti-gay far-right that being gay is just a phase. So with your agenda you’re feeding directly into that bigoted mentality despite your claim of being a so-called “progressive.” These days the word “progressive” is so tossed around, misused and abused that it has completely lost its original meaning. Or that image you have, “Is this how you would react if your boyfriend was about to get pussy for the first time?” The image shows a guy sitting on the couch with a broad smile while his naked jock boyfriend is in the background waiting for his new girlfriend that he’s waiting to fuck. (roll eyes)

      Then you go on about how gay relationships don’t last which is more bull shit since I know many Queer couples who have been together for decades. You never mention the over 50% divorce rate in the US for breeder/straight couples.

      Then you wrote that little tacky chart of how breeder sex is superior to Queer sex and how nasty Queer sex supposedly is. But you don’t consider that anti-gay? Of course you never mention the nasty stench of pussy and how it reeks, as one example.

      Considering all of that, then you wonder why people say that you’re anti-gay or homophobic? Oh please! You can’t possibly be that dense. You most assuredly come across as if breeder sex is the “correct,” “proper,” and “ultimate” sex that one should be having and you’ve made other anti-gay comments with other picture images. The truth seems to hurt you. Stop living in your denial at what you’re doing. You most assuredly have an anti-gay agenda with your “please try pussy” constant theme.

      I personally think that people should be with whom they want to be with. But I’m at a loss as to why it’s so enormously important to you and others with their gay conversion sites that you constantly theme on “pussy is the ultimate.” Why do you care who somebody has sex with or lives with? Why do you spend so much of your life pushing and promoting the “Pussy Agenda.” What’s that about? It’s quite the obsession for you. It’s rather twisted.

      By most accounts, there’s supposedly only about 10% of the world’s population that is Queer. So why is there this big worry or concern by people such as yourself over “converting” gay guys to pussy when there are so few Queer people to begin with in this heteronormative Breeder Agenda society where one is constantly bombarded with images of “him and her?” These days, I’m seeing more and more Queer guys going back in the closet being “discreet” and “down low.” Sad.

      Rather than wasting all the time you do on promoting the Breeder Agenda and pussy, and despite the name of your site, why don’t you come out of the closet (for a second time, assuming you came out the first time) and just go get the dick? Stop playing these heteronormative, breeder mind games with yourself. You are born the way you are. Stop fighting your biological DNA. Now go out and enjoy the rest of your life. Chau.—el barrio rosa

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        1. el barrio rosa Post author

          Probably. But I don’t know for sure. He’s done that to other people critical of his site. I know the type of response he would write, so I don’t really care. One could say, “I’ve read it all before; nothing new here.” Overall, he would write the same script. But I haven’t been over there to see. Gracias.

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      1. UK Reader

        We gay people are used to people like this. They are people who are gay themselves and in the closet and fighting against their own self and probably using religion in some disguised way or another. He’s just another queer guy who can’t find any dick. The closet really sucks. When he comes out of the closet, he’ll be a much better person.

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