Lesbians trying to look like straight women

Hola a todos. In our increasingly insane upside-down world, most lesbians are trying to look like straight woman. Notice that straight women are not trying to look like lesbians. What’s next? Buses trying to look like cars? Anyway, this topic about lesbians came up (as well as another topic) at our most recent get-together of our little group of local Queers here in San Francisco.

Once again, we talked about the many (most?) Queers/GTQBLs going out of their way to be extremely heteronormative to be as much like the obnoxious breeders as possible to “assimilate.” (ugh). This shit didn’t happen during the Gay Mecca decades. This is relatively new, historically speaking. It’s a most unfortunate and sad consequence of that nonsense to “assimilate” with the breeders that the corporatist Queers — with their bloated executive salaries at those pro-corporate wealthy US national Queer organisations — ordered following gay marriage becoming legal here in the shithole US. You know who they are. You know the organisations I’m talking about. I’ve been to some of their website(s) and seen the rows of corporate logos lined up in columns spread across the page. They have sold out to corporations. They only represent corporate interests and they only care about corporatist Queers of a certain wealthy income bracket similar to their own. They take this heteronormative, omnipotent we-know-what’s-best-for-the-Queer-community, elitist, self-appointed authority approach. Although they wouldn’t say “Queer community.” No, instead they use the cookie-cutter and revisionist history “LGTB(Q)” acronym. They live under some misguided illusion that they know what’s best for the Queer community. I’m talking about the Queer organisations like the corporate trash that threw the transgender community under the bus some years ago. And wealthy Queers worship these organisations, send them dinero/money and show up for their lavish and overpriced Lah-Tee-Dah Gala Dinners, Dahling. Meanwhile, homeless Queers are lying on the cold sidewalk with nothing to eat in the vicinity of this elitist corporate bash. It’s because of this “assimilation” bullshit, with few exceptions, that it has become very difficult (if not impossible) to tell who is Queer and who’s not these days since the overwhelming majority of people “all look and act the same” in their desire to be conformist and heteronormative, regardless of sexual orientation. Conform! Obey! Wear Black and Grey!

Assimilate: Become Conservative; Abandon “Out and Proudly Radical”

Another ramification of the “Declaration for Queers To Assimilate” with the breeders has resulted in the Queer community becoming very conservative (and even sexually prudish), corporatists and pro-Establishment/pro-US Military Industrial Complex. Related: Gay Men Glorify War and Nationalism. This is the exact opposite of who we/they were during the “Out and Proud” Gay Mecca decades. The conservatives said, “the Gay Community needs to grow up.” Translation: Become conservative. And that’s what’s happened. Many Queers have become like the same conservative prudes they fled from decades ago.

Las lesbianas/The lesbians in our little group have repeatedly spoken with frustration that they can’t tell who is a lesbian and who isn’t anymore. This is because (they say), “Lesbians are trying to look like straight women” — and one of the guys in our group piped up and said, “and gay guys are trying to look like straight guys” — since the order for “assimilation” was given. They (lesbians) have long flowing blond hair (out of a bottle?) or brown hair, they wear lingerie Millennial clothing for their often anorexic-looking body, they wear stiletto heels (which are very bad for one’s feet but that’s apparently no longer a concern) and lots of makeup. And some lesbians are going to straight bars to try to pick up females. Then, they get offended/bent out of shape when a breeder guy hits on them in a straight bar! Loca./Crazy. Loca.

The other topic that came up was another recurring theme and that’s the increasing number of Queer guys — according to our extremely reliable Gaydar — holding hands with a female who looks like a lesbian. The “couple” give the impression they are dating. It’s as if they are trying to act like a straight couple. Related: More back to the 1950s: Gay guys marrying females in droves. Sad. That’s the impression we all get. But that image of a breeder couple that they’re trying to send is shattered when one sees what is really a Queer boy holding hands with what looks like a more stereotypical lesbian. Everyone in our group said they had seen this. I’ve seen it too. A sense of resigned frustration and sadness comes over me when I see this because I see a very young somewhat effeminate Queer boy with a young female, and yes, they do put on this act as if they’re “a breeder couple” and dating with their mandatory public hand-holding, just like the in-your-face-with-their-sexuality breeders. One wonders why the now-dead Gay and Lesbian Rights Movement worked for decades when this is what some Queers were going to ultimately do in the end: Desperately want to be like and act like the breeders, and live in the closet.

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6 comments on “Lesbians trying to look like straight women

  1. Queer boi

    Lesbians trying to look like straight women and Queer bois trying to look like straight guys in our topsy-turvey world. Then I saw this headline: ‘Property Brothers’ star Jonathan Scott splits from longtime girlfriend Jacinta Kuznetsov. Seems he has a series of “troubled relationships” with women. Wonder why that might be? Maybe he’s dating the wrong gender. I’ve seen him and that’s what my queerdar tells me.

  2. Ed in the Castro

    I was on the phone earlier today with a friend who lives in Upper Market. We were talking and he said ‘I just saw a queer guy walk by my window holding hands with a pregnant woman.’ I said that’s the latest fad didn’t you know? Fuked up gay guys trying to be str8 by getting a woman pregnant. My friend let out this loud groan over the phone. That’s their public image but let me tell you they’re not fooling anyone but themselves. This story has played out 1,000s of times.

  3. Former San Franciscan

    >>> A sense of resigned frustration and sadness comes over me when I see this …<<<

    I feel the same way.

    1. D8

      Agree. My guess is that it’s the same in other cities but the local gay media have also helped the queer community become conservative. I stopped reading the local gay rag yrs ago because of their increasing conservative bent. I watched them endorse sit-lie, Dianne Feinstein and Scott Penis (as pb refers to him….love that!) and other awful people. Each week when that newspaper hit the newspaper racks I would think to myself here’s this week’s brainwashing for the queer community. I’ve become distanced from some longtime gay friends because they’ve become conservative over the years. Got tired of arguing with them. 🙁

  4. Tarquin

    Re the gay guy holding hands with the lesbian – sounds like he’s fallen for the “pussy is the gay cure” propaganda.

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