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Gay Conversion

UPDATE (enero/January 2018): Well the anti-Queer agenda ramped up recently with yet another gay conversion site in the same series with all the others. This one is particularly blatantly anti-gay with its regular use of the words “the fag, the faggot, the homo, fuck the homo, stupid homo” and other derogatory words. One of their story lines has a gay guy calling his partner at home and saying that he won’t be back home in time for their anniversary because his “business trip” is taking longer than expected. His “business trip” is really a trip out of town where he’s cheating on his boyfriend with a female he’s fucking in a hotel. Six months later, according to their storyline, he’s married to her — the image shows a guy fucking a female — and he’s “on his way to starting a real family.” Implying that gay families are not “real families.” Also, the guy on the phone calling his boyfriend to cancel their anniversary is not the same guy fucking the female on the bed. They both have a beard, and I guess that’s all they thought that people would look at (since you can’t see his dick), but they’re not the same guy at all because I checked them both out. Attention to detail is not at all something that these sites are big on. As with the other gay conversion sites, the site is amateurishly done with typos (they don’t seem to proof anything they write) and extremely-slow-loading images which don’t match. What I mean by that is that their anti-gay story line will have several images that they steal from some where. They use these images for their agenda by typing on the images their anti-gay message. When I say the images don’t “match,” what I mean by that is that the guy shown in the first image is not the same guy shown in the second image — even though he’s supposed to be; and just like the guys in the “business trip” story I mentioned earlier — who has become a “pussy hound.” Then, where they use animated images where the person in the image is talking briefly, what they claim he’s saying (in their caption underneath) is not at all what he’s saying in the image and one can see this to be the case with even an elementary level of lip-reading.

Then there’s the fictional “gay couple goes straight” story that I’ve seen all over these sites. I’m not going to relate the entire story line other than to say it has to do with one of the guys in the gay couple realises that he’s now sexually turned on by this girl at work who’s young enough to be his daughter and she’s interested in this Daddy. The guy’s partner flips out when he tells him about her and that he wants to have sex with her in their bedroom, yet the partner is also turned on by this. To cut the story short, this girl comes to their place and after the guy comes up from eating her pussy out — and of course causing her to have 3 orgasm (not 5 or 6?) — the writer describes how her pussy juice is in his reddish-blond goatee. The problem with that is that the guy doesn’t have a reddish-blond goatee. Up above the story about them is an alleged picture of the two guys that the writer stole from somewhere online. When I read, “reddish-blond goatee” I said to myself: But neither guy has reddish blond hair or a goatee. So I scrolled back up to the supposed picture of them and my memory of them was correct. They both have a black beard. No reddish-blond goatee. You slipped up again anti-gay liars. So who are the two gay guys you’re showing in that picture who have supposedly gone straight and where did you steal their picture from? But that’s what these sites do. They lift/steal pictures somewhere to go with their fictional “gay goes straight” story line, but the pictures often don’t match or fit descriptions in the story. Nevertheless, at the end of this fictional story, both gay guys end up having sex with this girl and after she leaves they decide that they’re no longer gay.

Confirming my suspicion that many (if not all) of these sites are run by the same hateful person or group of bigoted anti-Queer people with an anti-gay agenda of “ending homosexuality within 10 years,” (that’s what the newest site says), this newest site is now being “fed” verbatim into the other gay conversion sites, exactly the way it appears on the original site. In any other situation, this would be considered a major copyright violation, but I suppose if one anti-Queer person with a anti-gay agenda owns all the sites, this is legal. Nearly all of the comments in agreement with the site are written by “anonymous,” and “anonymous” asks the blogger questions as if s/he is seen as a mental health/sex expert. Such as, “Why am I happy and turned on that my gay boyfriend is going straight and I think he wants to dump me for a girl?” The blogger’s answer: “Because you know deep down that’s the right thing to do.” I notice repeatedly that the drug alcohol is so often part of these fictional conversion stories and fake personal testimonies of these supposed gay conversions. Such as the gay guy who was “drunk on his ass and met a girl in the gay bar (of all places) and took her home to get his first pussy.” Now I’m sure that worked out extremely well [sarcasm intended] because I think most intelligent people know that a guy can’t even get a hard-on when he’s “drunk on his ass” therefore so much for your bull shit story of “getting your first pussy.” With the frequent mention of booze especially in testimonials, that implies that a gay guy has to be drugged by some means to try pussy. He’s not “trying pussy” on his own using sound judgment in the moment. The site also goes on about the nonexistent “Gay Agenda” while heavily promoting society’s real agenda: the heteronormative Breeder Agenda, where everyone in society is supposed to be straight and “fucking pussy.” Him and her, where images of him and her are shoved in our faces 24/7. That’s certainly no “Gay Agenda” los pendejos. Of course, this is all about breeder sex. With some of these sites the agenda is about getting the female pregnant (“breeding that pussy”) without any consequences whatsoever. I’ve only seen a couple of instances where the consequences of her being a single parent (with already two children) and about to get pregnant again because in the moment she can’t resist the guy cumming in her and she’s not on birth control and is ovulating. One of the sites is promoting “going straight” and marrying a female in order to have a family. I think most intelligent people understand that one can have a family without “going straight” or marrying a female, and there are different types of families. These bigots are promoting the 1940-50s traditional concept of a family.

I told my straight neighbour (he’s a really nice guy) about this new gay conversion site. He asked me: “Do they talk about the woman’s erratic emotional state? Do they talk about the drastic mood changes from one minute to the next and the emotional meltdowns a woman can have for no apparent reason, storming out of the room and you have no idea why, and her emotional flip-flops where she says one thing one minute and then contradicts herself the next? When you ask her about the meltdown she had 10 minutes ago where she acted like a fucking bitch she has no idea what you’re talking about and doesn’t even remember the incident. Her emotions are as quickly changing as if they are on a light switch, off and on. Do they talk about that?” (Answer: No). He continued: “Do they talk about what it’s like to live with a woman? Do they talk about that smelly-fishy slimy-mucous pussy which is right next to the anus which can get pretty rank especially if she doesn’t take a shower every day, and guys claim to like that? (My response: Only because guys have been brainwashed by society that that’s what they are supposed to like to be considered “normal” guys. But no, the sites don’t talk about that at all). He continued: “The vagina is a mucous membrane after all. Sex with a woman is one thing, she often just lies there, but to live with a woman is something much more complicated, more involved and difficult especially in the emotional area. I’m straight and I couldn’t do it and I tried to live with a woman (not the same one) several times! I gave it up, couldn’t do it. I’m single and live alone. I wish I were gay. I think that would be much easier.” With these gay conversion sites, it’s all about sex (no odors) and a gay guy going straight and nothing more. The only time I’ve seen anything about smells is of course in a positive sense when this gay guy in their fictional story was going to eat this female out and the story line was about “her intoxicating womanly smell between her legs” and that “the gay guy didn’t need a second invitation upon smelling that because he was now hooked on pussy.” Other than that, nothing about the smell of pussy is talked about.

Most of these sites urge gay guys after becoming “hooked on pussy” to urge their gay friends to try pussy to convert them, as if it’s a campaign to “turn” gay guys away from being gay. Of course there are the occasional “anonymous” comments about how some former gay guy has converted all of his gay friends to pussy. We all believe that, don’t we? If you haven’t already come to this conclusion: A bunch of sick people with a hateful anti-gay agenda run these sites. End of Update. Chau.—el barrio rosa

Hola a todos. This is a more in-depth look at this topic than my previous article. The Anti-Gay Agenda: “Sexuality is Fluid.” Translation: A person can change their sexuality; one’s sexuality is changeable, or that a person’s sexuality changes without the person having any control over it. These gay conversion sites promote that “sexuality is fluid,” which is the excuse/justification given for gay guys supposedly being about to “turn bi” or “turn straight.” According to these gay conversion sites, all a gay guy has to do to “turn straight” or “turn bi” is to start fucking pussy — and he will immediately realise what he’s been missing all these years and the ultimate satisfaction of pussy — and also by only watching “straight porn.” The “Sexuality is Fluid” Card is nearly always used in a straight-superiority and anti-gay context to promote breeder sex: for the sole purpose and justification of “turning” a gay guy straight or bi. Read the full article here. To comment, please go to the article page.

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Marketing Pussy to Gay Guys

“Pussy is the gay cure.” That’s what the anti-gay bigots are pushing. Why is so important to them that everyone have their sexual interests? Well, this is really about a very specific anti-gay agenda.

There’s an update near the bottom of this page.

Hola. The idea that “sexuality is fluid” is heavily promoted by gay conversion sites to market pussy to gay guys. Most unfortunately, “sexuality is fluid” is also being promoted by at least one Queer site that I know of, as well as by some conformist, mainstream sheeple Queers who mindlessly regurgitate stupid clichés they’ve heard or read, such as “sexuality is fluid.” Of the gay conversion sites, the term “The Gay Agenda” is used pejoratively by at least one of these sites that I’m aware of. In reality, there is no “gay agenda” and there never has been. But there most assuredly is a Breeder Agenda. And that’s the agenda of all of these sites trying to market pussy to gay guys, and the Breeder Agenda is the agenda of our heteronormative society.

Even in places where gay marriage is legal, images of “him and her” continue to be shoved in our faces 24-hours a day as if Queer couples don’t exist and neither does gay marriage. That’s also part of The Breeder Agenda promoting a heteronormative/breeder/straight society.

The term “sexuality is fluid” means that a person can change his/her sexuality, or that a person’s sexuality changes without the person having any control over it. As I said, gay conversion sites say that “sexuality is fluid” in order to promote their anti-gay agenda of encouraging gay guys to “turn bi” or preferably “turn straight.” The “Sexuality is Fluid” Card is nearly always used in a straight-superiority, anti-gay context to promote breeder sex including pregnancies without the responsibilities that come with pregnancy ever mentioned.

I recently asked everyone I could think of if their sexuality had changed over the years. Each person I asked looked at me as if I had egg in my hair, and as if they thought I were crazy. They shook their head and said, “No, why?” I explained to them that some people with an anti-gay agenda are using the innocent-sounding cliché “sexuality is fluid” to encourage gay guys to “turn bi” or “turn straight.” According to the gay conversion sites, because “sexuality is fluid,” all a gay guy has to do is to start watching only “straight porn” and then “find the right girl” to fuck pussy for the first time. Then, after “getting pussy,” he will realise what he’s been missing all of his life (you think?), he will have experienced the “ultimate satisfaction of pussy” (roll eyes) and he will become a “pussy hound” and “give up his gay life and put that Rainbow Flag away.” Sigh. Breeder brainwashing. Of course the gay conversion sites never mention that many, if not most, gay guys started out by fucking pussy in high school — due to peer pressure — when they were still in the closet so it’s not like they’ve never done it before. After which, they quickly ran to dick because they knew they were into guys.

I ran this “sexuality is fluid” bull shit by my straight neighbour. His reaction was a combination of rolled eyes followed by “oh, good gawd! Are you serious?” He’s told me many times how he wish he were gay because of his many problems with women especially in their emotional department which is something that these gay conversion sites rarely-to-never talk about. To them, it’s all about “getting pussy.” Very shallow. Well, there are many other things in a “relationship” with a female than just pussy. My straight neighbour told me, “Pussy is not all that it’s marketed to be. It’s really over-hyped by our society; it can be satisfying but so is jacking off, and each woman is built differently so fucking pussy does not always feel the same. If the couple is fucking in the missionary position, it can be exhausting for the guy having to hold himself up by his arms. All she does is lie there. I know from experience.”

I was on a bisexual guy’s blog recently. He’s a genuine bi guy — and not one of the thousands of heteronormative gay guys lying about their sexuality and calling themselves “bi” instead of gay — when they have zero interest in females — to try to sound more straight. I’m specifically talking about the overwhelming majority of gay guys with gay shame on CL (ClosetList) in men-for-men sex ads regardless of which city it is, from San Francisco to Manhattan/NYC. The bisexual blogger wrote: “It seems there’s no shortage of gay guys who fantasize about not being into men anymore. If you’re looking for that trip, look elsewhere.” Sad. I was pleased to see he’s not part of the agenda of converting gay guys to being bi or straight. He used the word “trip” as in head trip or fantasy. That’s a good description. Now in fantasy, people’s fantasies can be literally anything since people have all kinds of fantasies — including fantasies about changing one’s sexuality, I suspect — but that doesn’t at all mean that someone wants to act out their fantasies and try to change their sexuality in their real life. I’ve heard some gay guys say on occasion that they had the most bazaar fantasy to the point where they were critical of themselves for having it, and after they came they asked themselves “WTF was I thinking about?” As if it were so twisted and unacceptable to them in real life. Personally, I think fantasies are usually best left as fantasies because rarely does a fantasy play out in real life exactly as the fantasy plays out in a person’s main sex organ: one’s brain. Trying to play out a fantasy in real life can most often turn out to be a disappointment. I sometimes think that most ClosetList ads are purely fantasy and for pic collecting (to jack off to) with most people having no intention whatsoever of hooking up. Because “send pics, or expect no reply” is one of the most common requests in sex ads.

The main reason I’m writing about this is because unfortunately some Queers/GTQBLs have already adopted this “sexuality is fluid” bull shit, and I’ve not seen it mentioned or used solely in any fantasy context. Yes, some Queers are already mindlessly falling for it without thinking it through and the consequences. For example:

I read a comment — supposedly a true story — on a message forum from a lesbian who got drunk one night and she came onto and had sex with her best friend (a straight guy) but did not understand why she did that. He didn’t understand why she came onto him either and he asked her “Are you sure you want to do this?” After the fact, she seemed to be asking for advice on the message forum she posted on. The comments to her from other conformist/mainstream Queers were: “Relax, just remember that sexuality is fluid.” Ugh. Sigh. Not one person said anything about the drug alcohol and the drastic effects it can have on people’s behaviour. To my fellow Queers: Why don’t you think before you speak and show your stupidity and/or ignorance? It was the drug alcohol that caused her to be a different person, not her sexuality, you idiots. The next day when she was sober, she was at a loss why she had sex with her best friend. She’s that dense too? Obviously it had nothing to do with “sexuality is fluid.” El mundo/The world is going insane in case one hasn’t noticed. Has she never heard what can happen to people under the influence of the drug alcohol? She’s never heard that people can become completely different people under the influence of alcohol? Sigh. Well, stupid is in. On the gay conversion sites with their “anonymous” testimonials gushingly thanking the blogger (“can’t thank you enough for your blog”) for their site, the drug alcohol is frequently mentioned in the scenarios or made up stories involving some gay guy supposedly being hit on by a girl at a party or in a bar and then intoxicated him having sex with her and miraculously “turning bi or straight” overnight. It should be pointed out that many, if not most, guys who are drunk can’t even get a hard-on.

If the Queer/GTQBL community falls for this “sexuality is fluid” bull shit as a unified group and promotes the idea that one can change one’s sexuality or one’s sexuality changes on its own, then we can kiss our Queer rights — the ones we still have — goodbye. Fin. The End. Period. And that’s likely the intent here. The anti-gay closet cases of the far-right and these gay conversion sites with their anti-gay agenda will say, “There’s no need for Queer rights because Queers can turn straight. They even admit it!!!!!”

And with that, we’ll be right back where we started from Day One decades ago at the very start of the original Gay and Lesbian Rights Movement with the sheeple thinking that, “Gay people choose to be gay,” as the ultra-conservative/far-right proudly-ignorant trash have claimed for decades. They will smugly say, “Well even gays themselves after all these decades have finally admitted that they can change; they call it ‘sexuality is fluid.’ So, since that’s a fact (they will say) why don’t they just ‘turn straight?’ Problem solved. The gays will have any and all rights they want with straight privilege.”

Any thinking person should be able to see where this is going.

For the closeted gay guys who fell for the marketing of pussy, in recent years in San Francisco the one thing some of us have noticed are the gay closet cases who are married to females who have moved to San Francisco. (I think they are the techie trash, but I’m not positive). They keep breeding, such as the very fem closeted gay guy on my street and his wife and screaming children. My straight neighbour talked with the guy briefly and told me it was obvious to him that the guy is a closeted gay guy with a wife and children. Yes of course, following The Family Breeder ScriptTM per our heteronormative society’s dictates. But there are multiple children living/screaming over there for all the neighbourhood to hear. It’s most curious that these breeders moved to San Francisco’s Castro-Upper Market area, the former Gay Mecca. Did they move to this particular area of The City so he could more easily cheat on her and “get some dick” on the side as “Mr Totally-Closeted, Discreet and Down Low?” Presumably they keep breeding so that the closeted gay guy in this breeder couple can prove his masculinity and to show just how “straight” he is to his jock bro buds. The thinking being: “The more babies you pump out means the more straight you are.” And lately we’ve been seeing so many pregnant breeders, and she’s showing this huge beach ball-sized stomach completely uncovered. Don’t the prudes in The Castro who can’t stand to see any “skin” have a problem with that? Doesn’t that somehow violate the city-wide nudity ban where everything has to be all covered up? If it were a (gay) guy with his shirt off, some busy-body would likely call the cops. And most of the time, these breeder females are pushing a Millennial black baby stroller. They just can’t get enough of being pregnant (they love the attention), squeezing out babies and over-populating our planet to the number of: 7 billion, 5 hundred million PLUS as of this writing. Our planet can only handle a little over 1 billion people in a rationale and sane world. But people don’t talk about that much. Chau.—el barrio rosa

UPDATE (enero/January 2018):

How is that “gay assimilation” shit and that gay conversion shit working out about now? Mi amigo/My friend found this article (link below) and as soon as he brought it up I said: Oh that idiot. I remember him and that pathetic story. I guess his “gay conversion to being straight” didn’t work (imagine that!) since he’s getting a divorce from his esposa/wife and has finally come out of the closet. I guess pussy didn’t “cure” him the way the anti-gay asshole gay conversion sites like to lie and claim it does:”

This Gay Mormon Man Who Got Famous For Marrying A Straight Woman Is Getting Divorced
“The couple is now apologizing to the GLBTQ community for how the “publicity of our supposedly successful marriage” has been “used to bully others.”
Josh Weed, who made headlines in 2012 for coming out as a gay Mormon man in a straight marriage, announced Thursday that he and his wife, Lolly, are getting divorced.”

This divorce comes after pumping out 4 children — was he trying to prove how supposedly straight he was ?? — with one child still in a stroller. If he had come out to begin with as a Queer boy that he is and stopped lying to himself he wouldn’t be in this mess to begin with, with upcoming child support payments, the possible emotional consequences on and damage to his children, etc. Is he still in that Latter Day Saints church? Get out of it! They are one of the worst Christian denominations around. A bunch of fucking mostly white bigots. Most religions — especially fundamentalists — can really fuck up people’s lives. Chau.—el barrio rosa

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Well, pussy must not be all that hot considering all the emotional baggage and financial demands that come with it. Here’s something they don’t talk about at these gay conversion sites:

Cost-benefit analysis: girlfriend vs. fleshlight

Pop singer Aaron Carter says he’s bi, but only interested in dating females. WTF?

Hola a todos. File this under: Yet another sexually fucked-up heteronormative Queer/gay guy trying to pretend to be straight after coming out as bisexual. WTF?

So Mr Bi, pop singer Aaron Carter, is only interested in dating females? What does Mr Bi have against dating guys, and why the fuck did he come out as bi recently? Why did he even bring up this subject to begin with if he doesn’t have gay feelings? And he wants to ignore his gay feelings by only dating females? Loco. Of course we all know that he has had no sexual contact or interest in guys — wouldn’t dream of it! — since that guy of 13 years ago when Aaron was 17, correct? Sure. We all believe that. (roll eyes) Who do some people think they’re fooling? We weren’t born yesterday.

Aaron reminds me of so many typical Millennials of today — San Francisco is full of them, unfortunately — who are gay but have gay shame. So, they either call themselves bi or straight, many of whom live in the closet and marry females living a lie about who they really are. They fuck around on the side when “the wife” or “the GF” (as they warmly and affectionately call her, sarcasm intended) is not looking or is “out of town.” In many cases, “the GF” is non-existent. She’s fictional and part of the closeted gay guy’s heteronormative script.

We all know how bad it is to be seen as gay now in many people’s minds. Especially in the minds of many Queer guys with their gay shame who are going to great lengths to avoid using the word “gay” to describe themselves. They call themselves “bi” — they think that makes them sound more macho, masculine, manly and “less gay” — even though they have absolutely no interest in females. This reminds me: I saw an ad the other day on Closetlist (that’s not the real name of the site; you all know the site I’m talking about?). Another fucked-up gay Millennial guy here in San Francisco’s Castro/Upper Market (the former Gay Mecca, of all places!) was looking for a JO buddy and wrote, “Let’s stroke together; no one will know.” But who would care, Mr Closet Case?! You’re in San Francisco, a major city, not a hick town with prying eyes. Who here in San Francisco cares about your jack off buddies? What conservative backwater cesspool did you move here from? With your “no one will know” tag line you act as if it’s a crime to JO with another guy in the privacy of one’s home. Sigh. And of course he wrote that he prefers “straight or bi types.” See what I mean? What’s wrong with gay dick, Mr Closet Case? How is gay dick different than straight or bi dick? Or are you using the words “straight or bi types” as code language for masculine? If so, there’s no shortage of masculine gay guys out there. Look up from your phone and you’ll see them. And the thing is, a (masculine) gay guy could lie and tell this guy, “I’m bi (or straight)” and this guy wouldn’t know the difference.

As a point of reference, I didn’t know any gay guys in the closet when San Francisco was a Gay Mecca.

To be clear: I’m not talking about genuine bisexual people here. I’m talking about the lying frauds. The lying fake-bi guys that I’ve already written reams about to the point that I’m sick of writing about this shit, and these fucked-up-in-the-head gay people. I swear, it’s as if little was accomplished in the big scheme of things during the Gay and Lesbian Rights Movement of past decades judging by the closeted behavior of many Queers today.

I’m reminded of all the gay closet case musicians and actors in the Latino/Hispano/mexicano community. Don’t get me started on that! They too pretend to be breeders/straight and when they’re interviewed and on occasion asked about their sexuality (suspected of being Queer), they outright lie and routinely give the expected pat answer/script: “Oh I like the girls.” Yeah sure you do, chico. You like the girl’s dinero/money that they spend on your music, but who do you think about when you jack off? Who are you sexually involved with “on the down low” and being “discreet” with? You’re not fooling anyone based on online comments about the many suspected gay closet cases in the Latino community. One cannot tell me that there are only 3 (THREE) Queer Latino/Hispano actors and musicians out there en el mundo/in the world. Those three who are out of the closet are: Enrique Martín Morales (Ricky Martín), José Christian Chávez Garza (Christian Chávez), and the third one is not coming to mind at the moment. Only three Queer Latinos/Hispanos/mexicanos in all the world? Sure. We all believe that too. One reason I stopped watching the awards ceremonies on the Latino networks was because I got sick of seeing closet case Latino Queer guys standing there on the red carpet with their arm around a female as their date for the evening or pretending to be a breeder couple posing before network cameras.

Now back to Aaron Carter: You can go here to read more about heteronormative Aaron.

Now get this: Aaron just broke up with a female. Some people don’t learn from past experiences, do they? The thing mi amigo/my friend and I don’t understand is: since he has gay feelings (that’s part of the meaning of bi), why doesn’t he pursue a relationship with a guy? GASP!, NO, NOT THAT! Why doesn’t Aaron avoid those females who are so emotionally-driven that they drive many men loco? As my straight neighbour often says: “Females can be one emotional train wreck. I wish I were gay. All the gay guys I know are very emotionally stable, by comparison.” I guess that Aaron enjoys constant dysfunction and emotion in his life and that’s why he’s pursuing females. And of course he doesn’t want to be seen as gay. Wouldn’t want that! Frankly, what he should do is sit his ass down with a credible psychotherapist to deal with his gay shame. Or is he too young or immature at nearly age 30 to understand all of this? It’s difficult to be a successful musician when one has an emotional train wreck going on in one’s life while trying to concentrate on one’s music.

Finally, I’ve been seeing this quite a bit online lately: “Sexuality is fluid.” I’ve seen “sexuality is fluid” used in comments from some Queers/GTQBL’s as well as on some sites that have a conversion therapy agenda of trying to turn gay guys straight with the thinking being: “Just try pussy once and you’ll be hooked; you’ll realise what you’re missing, and you’ll go straight and never turn back. You’ll be cured of your homosexuality.” (roll eyes). “Sexuality is fluid” caters to the thinking that one chooses or can choose one’s sexuality. That feeds directly into the anti-gay agenda that we have heard for decades that “gay people choose to be gay.” Utter rubbish. Have no Queers thought about this who mindlessly repeat that “sexuality is fluid” nonsense? My sexuality is not fluid. It’s been the same for decades. Asking around, the Queers I know said the same about their sexuality. My straight neighbourhood says that his sexuality has been unchanged for decades.

It’s most ironic that we Queers worked for decades to be recognised, acknowledged, and tolerated accepted for being who we are, yet today many Queers are going backwards (to the closets of the 1950s), going back in the closet and trying to pretend to be straight and calling themselves bi, when they’re lying about their sexuality. (Again, I’m not talking about the genuine bi people.) Above, I crossed out the word “tolerated” as in “tolerance” for a reason. I can’t stand that word. Acceptance is the word that should be used. I’m sick and tired of hearing about “tolerance.” That’s the same as someone saying, “I’ll tolerate you.” Translation: I’ll put up with you. No, screw that! I want you to accept me for who I am. Not tolerate me. So when I hear people (including corporatist politicians; Obama was the last one I heard say it) talk about “tolerance” for decades, what they should be talking about is acceptance, and get on with it! Chau.—el barrio rosa

Previously:

More back to the 1950s: Gay guys marrying females in droves. Sad.

Closeted Gay Guy Seeking Wing-Woman

Gay guys self-induced conversion therapy

All the Queer boys and their wives

The Closeted Queer Community (2017)

A gay guy tries to prove he’s straight by getting a girl pregnant

Why Are Bisexual Guys Calling Themselves “Str8?”

“Honey, I Think It Would Be Nice To Move To San Francisco”

I’m Dreaming of Dick While I’m Drowning In Pussy

Going Backwards: More Gay Guys Getting Married To Females

Bi Now Means Masculine And Not Bisexual

The “Discreet” Gay Guys in New York City

Change Gay Pride to Gay Discreet

The “Discreet” Gay Guys

The Lesbians are straight ?

Entrance Rights into that Pussy