Closet Cases are Depressing

Hola a todos. It depresses me to see closet cases. They and their wife or girlfriend with babies deliberately move into a gay area to continue taking it over whether it be Chelsea in Manhattan (Chelsea: The Death of a Gay Neighborhood, Murdered by Neo-Hetero-Homophobes), West Hollywood (West Hollywood’s Gay Pride Fading?) or San Francisco’s Castro (formerly the Gay Mecca, now The Breeder Mecca). Closet cases in breeder relationships come with straight privilege and they can live anywhere but they deliberately choose to live in a gay area or a fading gay area. These adamantly conformist closet cases are doing as they’ve been taught/brainwashed to do by our society and by their family. They’re ditzy, they’ve been taught that he must have a girlfriend or wife (even when he’s gay and in the closet). After acquiring “the girl” then he must get married and begin squeezing out babies to satisfy his and her family’s requirements for them for “Starting a Family.” Translation: Breeding. What’s the big deal about breeding? Mosquitoes can breed.

I’ve seen the aged faces of breeders. In the case of my neighbours, I remember how young they looked roughly 13-14 years ago (“before breeding”). Now, after having two children, they have the wrinkled faces and posture of grandparents (“after breeding”), even though they’re not close to being grandparents. Breeding has aged them both tremendously.

These breeders (with their closeted husband or boyfriend) must also have the expensive house and the expensive cars and other expensive materialistic junk. This is all programmed into them by corporations, the corporate media, our conformist society and particularly The Family ScriptTM, which is what they’re following to “the T.” They’re following The Breeder Agenda.

Even in places where gay marriage is legal, images of “him and her” continue to be shoved in our faces 24-hours a day as if Queer couples don’t exist and neither does gay marriage. That’s also part of The Breeder Agenda promoting a heteronormative/breeder/straight society.

Many of the techie trash who have helped ruin San Francisco are Queer — according to even the most unreliable gaydar — but they live in the closet, get “the girl” to please their family, and then the baby factory opens. Mr Closet Case wears a baseball cap thinking that will make him look less gay and more macho, more “straight”/breeder-like and like the other Jock Bros. With these breeder couples, Mr Closet Case often looks unhappy — as if he’s thinking “how did I get myself into this mess?” — while pushing the baby stroller behind his constantly-needy-for-attention and giddy female spouse or girlfriend. She is giddy with happiness because she’s gotten what her Family ScriptTM requires: The guy (even when he’s really gay and in some instances deep down she knows that), at least two screaming babies in a two-seated stroller to help give her attention, the expensive house, the expensive status-symbol cars, the expensive phones, and other expensive required materialistic junk to “Keep Up With The Joneses”, even when they don’t know The Joneses. That’s why corporations push this stuff on unthinking people. Maximum materialistic capitalist consumption.

In San Francisco, there’s long been strong friction between the homeowners and renters. The elitist homeowners think they are entitled to special rights just because they own property. As soon as a homeowner learns that someone they’ve been talking with for awhile is a renter, the conversation shuts down immediately. My neighbour is the most recent person to experience that from a homeowner. The homeowner will put her/his nose in the air and walk off in a huff because there is such prejudice against renters in San Francisco. Also, the conservative Queers (wealthy homeowners) have warmly welcomed the breeders with their screaming babies to take over our gay area. The conservative Queers prefer to live among wealthy breeders rather than poorer Queers. To them, it’s a class issue.

So it does depress me whenever I see these closet cases, and I’m seeing more and more of them these days in San Francisco — they’re usually young and white Millennials — as San Francisco’s Castro (formerly the Gay Mecca) has become The Breeder Mecca with closet cases.

Some of the newer techie arrivals are quite anti-gay (related: Gay people are now thought of as “funny” in San Francisco).

I don’t know why breeders are so adamantly intent in living in a gay area or where there are still some Queers living, although at this point, damn few. Is it because the closet case guy in the breeder relationship thinks it will be easier to get “gay sex” on the side living over here? Again, these closet cases and their families could live anywhere on the planet or anywhere in San Francisco, but they go out of their way to live in a fading gay area. Either these closet cases come with an anti-Queer agenda of making The Castro/Upper Market a sea of breeder couples — although it looks like that now frankly — or they’re hoping to get “gay sex” on the “down low.” I’ve seen sex ads from the techie trash on CL (they brag that they’re in tech), and they are some of the most closeted guys on CL. Of course they lie and call themselves “straight” while they’re looking for sex with a guy. The closeted words “discreet” and “down low” are overly-saturated throughout their personal sex ads. They are clearly quite uncomfortable with their Queer sexuality. Insecure Millennials.

Also, with San Francisco having become a playground for the super-wealthy (the Bay Area is now known as Billionaire Bay), our crime rate in The City is now through the roof, unlike during the days when The City was known as a Bohemian, progressive Gay Mecca on the West Coast. In those days, our crime rate was relatively low by comparison. But with bougi wealthy breeders comes crimes.

With world overpopulation in general, when will these breeders with their Breeder Agenda realise that they are contributing to severe human overpopulation? I suspect they couldn’t care less. Or are they not paying attention to anything outside their phones? Oh I know in their mind they say, “My baby is special.” Yeah that’s what they all say. But at 7.5 billion people (as of this writing) and rising, we are all going to starve to death because there is not enough comida/food and agua/water for all of these humans that these obnoxious breeders are mindlessly squeezing out, as if they’ve never heard of birth control. The planet can sustain a little over one billion humans. Best to ignore in denial?

Maybe at some point, some of these young techie trash closet cases we see around here will decide that they’re tired of living a lie, tired of their dishonesty, tired of being a fraud, tired of pretending to like sex with females (he’s likely thinking about the guys he “discreetly” cruised at the gym when having sex with her and when he JO behind her back), he’s tired of pretending to be someone he’s not, and finally comes out of the closet. He’ll tell her that he’s gay and was gay when they met. She will either already know that or will have lived in denial about it for years. Then comes the legal mess and dividing things up and child support payments and whose lives have been harmed, damaged, and/or ruined/destroyed as a result of his lies and dishonesty, with needy-her serving as his accomplice all along when she knew he was gay from Day One. But she was desperate for someone to marry her at that point to fulfill “The Family ScriptTM.” Only because he (Mr Closet Case) didn’t have the courage, the integrity and was too weak of a person to be himself: The Queer boy that he is. What a mess. Wouldn’t it have been easier to come out of the closet to begin with even if it did disappoint his anti-gay family — who any other time claim to “love gay people,” except when it’s their own son who comes out — and their Breeder Script and Family ScriptTM plans for him? But unfortunately, this story has repeated itself thousands of times worldwide and will continue to do so. Chau.—el barrio rosa

7 comments on “Closet Cases are Depressing

  1. FedUp!

    >>>Even in places where gay marriage is legal, images of “him and her” continue to be shoved in our faces 24-hours a day as if Queer couples don’t exist and neither does gay marriage. <<<

    Yes, and I think the one thing that burns me up the most is when they show a him and her couple and it's so so obvious that he is gay. They stuck a gay guy with a woman trying to make them out to be a straight couple. Grrrrrrr.

  2. Queer boi

    Closet cases = anti-gay in their public life and push for homophobic laws

    They make anti-gay comments thinking it makes them look cool and straight, then they jerk off to gay porn at night.

    Closet cases are depressing.

  3. Ed in the Castro

    I think your friend goes to the same gym near the Castro that I go to. The place has really changed!! I went this morning and I think there was one older gay guy there. I definitely get some uncomfortable looks there now. These homophobic millennial str8 guys, or, closet cases moved into our gay area and they really get bent if a guy happens to look at them or quickly cruise them. I’m waiting for one of them to say to me stop looking at me faggot because that’s the expression of anger they have on their face. Like I said, this city is such a different city now. Glad I got to live through the friendlier old city days where guys cruised, we talked alot, partied with only beer but didn’t get drunk, had a good laid-back time and enjoyed our queer neigborhood. It’s not like today. The Castro is such a slum now especially along Market St. It wasn’t like this when the Castro was a queer place.

  4. castro local

    i’m emphatic to your feelings ‘cuz this is a real problem now a days. personal experience here…..i’m an average looking dude and i get cruised when grocery shopping by young millennial gay guys with their woman. he’s looking for a daddy figure so he checks me out without her seeing him he thinks but sometimes she does see him cruising and she gives him a hard elbow in his ribs or she tells him loud enough for me to hear her to “stop that!!” talking to him like a child. some of these women know that their husband or bf is gay and she’s trying to suppress or erase his gay feelings for him. that’s the way it looks to me. i’d tell the bitch to take a hike. the millennial group is a very messed up, insecure group of people esp sexually. they really have sexual identity problems. my generation was here in sf for the gay mecca days and we were strongly out and proud. didn’t act like these millennials. this generation today is super closeted. it’s like they moved here without knowing anything about sf and they still don’t.

    1. el barrio rosa Post author

      Hola castro local, “the millennial group is a very messed up, insecure group of people esp sexually. they really have sexual identity problems.”

      Insecure with sexual identity problems? That’s what I’ve noticed too. On the gay conversion sites that I wrote nearly a book about (those sites promoting the Breeder Agenda and trying to brainwash Queers into “going straight” and marketing pussy to them as the “ultimate sexual experience”), nearly all of the ads from gay guys looking to “go straight” are from Millennials based on the picture they give of themselves and their age in their ads. From what I’ve read about Millennials (as well as my experience with some of them in San Francisco), I don’t think they would consider psychotherapy to work through their many problems because they have been brainwashed by their parents into thinking what special and deserving people they are. They are the best, they think. That’s what the article I read about them said. So they would be above therapy of any kind and likely in denial that they have any problem. And any therapist would have a major problem with most of them undergoing therapy because they can’t talk; they have no social skills. Mi amigo/My friend says his gym is now nearly entirely full of straight Millennials. It’s a very different and cold gym now. He says nobody talks even if they’re not on a phone. They are a very cold, distanced group of people. The only word in their vocabulary when they do talk is “like.” That’s all I ever hear them say around here. They are some of the most stupid and depressed-looking people around here, despite them being brainwashed to think they are such “geniuses” because they know a few tech skills. Techie trash. Ugh. Get on your fucking 2-story tall darkened-windowed luxury tech buses and go away! Gracias for your comment. Chau.

Fin. The End.